e.g. I can't even conceive of a scenario where I could find myself thinking about willingly even trying heroin or cocaine. But I have a few family members and (former) friends with addiction problems so severe that pounding a case of beer before snorting lines is what they call a normal Thursday afternoon and heroin is considered a weekend recreational sport. Something predisposed them to the notion that this was a valid idea whereas I can't even conceive of it.
That said I'm not reading what you are saying the OP is possibly suggesting at all.
He says:
"One of my relatives, for example, managed to get herself off of drinking and smoking completely and was in counseling. The addictions, and the kinds of behaviors that come with maintaining addictions (all kinds of dissociative, anti-social, manipulative weirdness) were ruining her life. Strange thing was, after removing the substance, the behaviors persisted."
I don't see anything that suggests that the initial addiction caused further addictions at all in the above paragraph.
This part. Seems an odd thing to say if you knew the person had addictive behavior before... perhaps I'm misreading it.
I find this like saying that other people might have addiction problems, but you don't have the personality so you can take it or leave it.
The OP can chime in, but your interpretation (which I considered) doesn't seem to fit what I just quoted.