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Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by woah on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:06PM (#5056968)
He certainly seemed to support the outrageous, overreaching prosecution that Aaron was facing.

"Aaron should man up, take responsibility for his actions, and pay his own bills."

This sounds a lot like "screw you, what you did is wrong, and you should quit whining about it."

"man up" clearly implies that Ed Weissman feels that going up against the massive US justice system to allow people without university affiliation or piles of cash to read publicly funded scientific research is an immature act.

As someone who has been blocked in the past from doing research because of lack of funds to pay the journals, this attitude disgusts me.

EDIT: Let me be absolutely clear that I am not implying that Ed had any blame in what happened or anything ridiculous like that. What I find objectionable in his commentary is his cavalier attitude towards the heavyhanded prosecution of those trying to make publicly funded research publicly available. This suggests a very elitist attitude towards the distribution of valuable public research.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by citricsquid on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:26PM (#5057066)
Aaron did something wrong [/edit: wrong in the eyes of the law: illegal, poor word choice/], something that he knew was wrong and that is an accepted fact, correct? If he did something he knew was wrong then what edw519 said is right, he should "man up" and accept the consequences, as everyone should do when they do something wrong.

The problem is what has come to light since that post was made, it has come to light that Aaron was not being held accountable for his "actions", he was being used. He was being made into an example, he was being turned into a tool to help peoples careers. This is what is important and why we should have supported him.

At the time nobody knew what he was facing, we know now and I'm sure if everyone here could go back they would support him more. Go back to the thread, forget everything you know about the case and situation and read the link (the appeal page on Aaron's website) and then the comments in the thread and form an opinion. It won't match what you're saying here because what you're thinking about now (and holding edw519 to) was not known at the time.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by thaumaturgy on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:35PM (#5057113)
See, here's the problem. In one sentence you're arguing that he should "accept the consequences", and in literally the very next sentence, you're describing how bad the consequences ended up being.

That is what is wrong with saying, "just accept the consequences", when you have no damn idea what the consequences are.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by citricsquid on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:44PM (#5057156)
A story and the reality are always different. The story as presented to people at the time was Aaron had done something (legally) wrong and was in trouble for doing it, some people believed what he did was for a just cause (education material should be free) and others didn't.

If the people reading the story at the time were expected to act on the situation by donating, why is it wrong for them to act in the form of a comment? How can it be fair to say people should have donated based on their understanding of the situation but not be able to comment on the situation?

Every single person in that comment thread is just as guilty of wrong doing if edw519 is guilty of any, because they all formed an opinion around something they knew very little of. It just so happens that the opinion edw519 expressed is unfortunately one that is at odds with the reality of the situation.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by thaumaturgy on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:01PM (#5057239)
First, just to be really clear about this: Ed is pretty much the very last example of bad behavior that I would ever look to on HN. He's a heck of a nice guy, and I wish he wasn't the one being discussed here.

That said, surely you can acknowledge that there's a difference between donating and posting a comment?

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by citricsquid on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:15PM (#5057316)
oh of course, they're very different things that have very different motivations and very different results, what I'm trying to argue is that they are both actions that come from an interest in the subject at hand. If you act on something (regardless of the specifics of that action) then you're making a commitment to that subject.

The point is every single person that acted on that post was doing it under exactly the same idea, "I have read about this situation and based on what I have read I believe x to be (true / false) and therefore I (support / don't support) Aaron" so when someone said "I believe that Aaron does not deserve to be bearing the burden here, I am donating $10 to his fund" they were making exactly the same assumptions as edw519 made when he said "I believe that Aaron is responsible for this situation and therefore should be responsible for the consequences".

The only difference is edw519 is on the wrong side of the outcome. Those that donated didn't know that Aaron was in some serious shit way beyond what anyone imagined, just like edw519 didn't know that Aaron was in some serious shit way beyond what he imagined.

If everyone took the line you're talking about, "I don't know the full story (because nobody ever can) so I'm not going to pass any judgement" Aaron would not have been the recipient of any donations, because Aaron could have been more in the wrong than edw519 thought! Maybe the prosecution had evidence that showed Aaron intended to rip people off, or commit a terrible crime? I don't want to be behind supporting that! I had better just ignore everything.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by thaumaturgy on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:27PM (#5057375)
> If everyone took the line you're talking about, "I don't know the full story (because nobody ever can) so I'm not going to pass any judgement"...

sigh. I never said that. I have no idea how you got from "comment publicly" to "pass judgement".

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by citricsquid on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:33PM (#5057409)
I think I'm misunderstanding the point you're making, I'm not much good at interpreting things. From what I understand of your comment:

    That is what is wrong with saying, "just accept the consequences", 
    when you have no damn idea what the consequences are.
I think you're saying that he shouldn't have passed judgement because he wasn't aware of the situation, although now reading your emphasis on ""comment publicly" to "pass judgement"" I suspect you may have meant that edw519 is at fault for his specific action (commenting that he thought Aaron should accept the consequences) not for thinking that Aaron should have accepted the consequences? If that's the case then my comment will not have been particularly relevant, sorry about that.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by thaumaturgy on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:52PM (#5057490)
> I suspect you may have meant that edw519 is at fault for his specific action (commenting that he thought Aaron should accept the consequences) not for thinking that Aaron should have accepted the consequences?

Yes, exactly, with the caveat that I'm absolutely not putting Ed "at fault" for anything here -- I'm talking about comments like that one, in general.

Everybody judges things, we on HN perhaps most of all. That's fine, it's part of our nature. However, we really need to think it over before we declare our judgement in a comment on a public forum, especially when it's likely that we aren't fully aware of the situation we're judging.

> If that's the case then my comment will not have been particularly relevant, sorry about that.

Hey man, no worries. Glad we got it sorted.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by anthonyb on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:16PM (#5057323)
Except that a large, negative comment from a widely respected HN poster is a pretty effective anti-donation.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by RegEx on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:45PM (#5057158)
> when you have no damn idea what the consequences are

Because this is unprecedented. People are still shocked at the excessive nature of the charges. No one expected it. To expect everything to be so severe would be paranoia.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by thaumaturgy on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:56PM (#5057209)
I guess that's fair. I honestly hadn't considered that; I've had enough dealings with the justice system to know that it's impossible to overestimate the damage they're willing to do to someone's life when it suits them.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by danielweber on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:32PM (#5057099)
I think I remember that thread, and I remember thinking of typing "criminal defenses, guilty or innocent, are extremely expensive, and this is by no means a good thing" but I guess I didn't pull the trigger and say it.

In retrospect, I wish I'd made it, and I also wish I'd said "even though I consider Aaron in the wrong, I'm still donating $5 so he knows that other people know he's alive, and I encourage those who are on his side to donate as well." Lots of donations, even if small in amount, would have at least helped him not feel alone. Depression sucks.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by nostrademons on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:57PM (#5057214)
I'm not entirely certain that Aaron knew he was doing something wrong, or, for that matter, whether he was in fact doing something wrong. It seems he made little effort to cover his tracks and pretty much acted out in the open. And from what I've heard from friends who've met him in person - Aaron was brilliant, idealistic, a nice guy, and hopelessly naive about how the world actually works.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:02PM (#5057249)
I'm pretty sure that he believed strongly that he was doing something right and that he must have been very upset at being persecuted in the way that he was for doing what was right.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by dyno12345 on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:03PM (#5057253)
If he didn't think he was doing anything wrong, why didn't he just ask permission?
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:17PM (#5057325)
There is this bit: "It is better to ask forgiveness than to ask for permission". This especially holds true if you're up against what we'll loosely label the establishment here, especially if said establishment is capable of marshalling serious force against you. Once it's done it's done, but during the execution phase just getting the job over with is often the smartest course of action.

See the PACER incident for how that can play out when it works. And I guess the JSTOR one for when it doesn't.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by dyno12345 on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:59PM (#5057783)
I'm not sure that this forgiveness vs. permission rule works well with civil or criminal law...
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @08:38PM (#5057976)
It has worked well for me so far. Of course it always does until it no longer works so this is just another instance of survivor bias. Unfortunately for poor Aaron it did not work out well for him.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by thaumaturgy on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:45PM (#5057456)
It's possible to believe you're doing something right and still be acting against the rules.

Let's just imagine -- completely hypothetically, of course -- that I recently wrote a crawler specifically designed to rescue client websites from a terrible DIY website service (which might or might not be Jimdo). Let's imagine it was tuned to load Jimdo-related assets (or the assets of a similar service), fix broken code, etc.; I'm pretty sure this would have been against Jimdo's rules (or the rules of a related service, if I had done such a thing, which, surely, I did not), but let's say I did it anyway because I think it's reprehensible that they don't provide a way for their customers to export their websites.

It's possible that I could have found myself on the pointy end of an expensive lawsuit over something like this. It's possible that I would have broken some laws that I am unaware of, had I done that -- and, had I done that, it would only weaken my case further to claim foreknowledge of the laws being broken. It's likely that there are laws which could be loosely enough interpreted to make me guilty of some form of "hacking". (And it would be most certainly utterly stupid to even consider leaving a comment like this under my regular username -- if, of course, I had done such a thing. Fortunately, as HN occasionally reminds me, I'm not competent enough to have done something like this.)

But there's no way I'd ever say that I did something "wrong", and there's no way I would have asked for Jimdo's permission to do something like that. I simply knew what the rules were, and I believed it was the rules, not I, that were wrong.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:23PM (#5057623)
More to the point, why did he keep taking specific action to evade the feeble roadblocks the admins managed to put up in front of him before he finally just hooked his laptop to a switch? Why did he ignore the Terms of Use statements when he started off on the Wifi MIT network?

Guys, aaronsw was wicked smart, he was undoubtedly at least vaguely aware of there being a Federal law covering "computer crime". It's far easier to believe that he felt he was doing the right thing despite the law than to believe he was completely unaware.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by fnordfnordfnord on Monday January 14, 2013 @08:02PM (#5057798)
Is it wrong to jaywalk? Assuming you'd say yes then, if one jaywalks across the street to pick up the cure for cancer and subsequently disseminates said cure, would you persecute him for jaywalking? Because jaywalking seems like a pretty good analogy to Swartz's causing a short disruption of the Jstor service, and it wouldn't surprise me if the open publication of all scientific knowledge had the direct result of curing cancer, or the equivalent, many times over.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mindslight on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @12:17AM (#5058786)
And just like hacking, in many places, Cambridge included, "jay" walking (I refuse to acknowledge this preposterous concept with its own word) may be purportedly illegal, but is actually accepted and encouraged. But you still must beware the rare meddling fed; they don't like people undermining the need for painting all those hazardous crosswalks.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Monday January 14, 2013 @11:55PM (#5058715)
You're basically saying that the ends justify the means. You may believe that (we probably all do, for some ratio of ends:means) but please keep in mind that the legal system does not believe that in general, as that logic has often been perverted in our history.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by nostrademons on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:24PM (#5057366)
He may've believed that the people who he would have to ask permission from are doing something wrong.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by Mz on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:57PM (#5057510)
Maybe you have heard of The Underground Railroad? Or "Separate but equal" policies and the movements which nonviolently opposed them? Or the United States of America, which was born of disagreement with the rules of the time?

Laws and rules are written by humans. Sometimes other humans don't agree with the rules as they are currently and try to make the world a better place. Sometimes they succeed. Sometimes they fail.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mikeash on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:59PM (#5057225)
Aaron (supposedly) did something illegal. Whether his actions were wrong is an entirely different question, and one that is highly subjective.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Monday January 14, 2013 @11:53PM (#5058704)
And what's more, it's entirely possible to feel that Aaron's actions actually were wrong and yet still feel that the prosecution was overbearing.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:59PM (#5057224)
> accept the consequences

Everyone has to accept the consequences. Reality doesn't allow you not to. There's no way to 'log out' of the real world; the most you can do is kill yourself, and then your suicide becomes the consequence.

Whenever someone says "accept the consequences" they mean "accept the consequences in silence", as opposed to accepting them under vocal protest and attempting to challenge them. When the consequences are unjust, accepting them in silence is acquiescing to the injustice, which only serves to perpetuate it.

Merely accepting the consequences is inevitable; accepting the consequences in silence is a choice, and it is not always the best choice.

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Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by woah on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:13PM (#5057001)
I'm willing to consider other view points, can you explain why?
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by streblo on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:24PM (#5057053)
Really? "nothing of the sort"? That's what it seems to suggest.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by django34211 on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:13PM (#5057003)
"Aaron should man up, take responsibility for his actions, and pay his own bills."

~Ed

Sounds like Ed was a bit harsh on someone who was going through allot of trouble. The comment was excessively cruel. Not to mention it was the top comment, which must of added large dosage of salt on an already wounded soul.

So he(Ed) rightfully deserves any criticism thrown at him.

It's such a tool bag comment, Ed should apologize. Your defending such a vitriolic comment, sorry but you sound like scum.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:18PM (#5057021)
(1) hindsight is 20-20

(2) the facts as we know then today were not readily apparent back then (even to those that were actively seeking those facts)

(3) Ed has a longstanding history of compassion and care

(4) mistakes were made, but there is nobody to apologise to.

Can we please stop the mobbing? Thanks.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by marvin on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:51PM (#5057191)
I really respect Ed Weissman's contributions and knowledge, so this is not meant as any type of personal attack. But I was thinking back when I read this comment four months ago that it seemed unusually harsh for someone who was facing 35 years in prison for something that _might_ deserve a slap on the wrist. So it's not all hindsight.

I was also surprised that it was the most-upvoted comment of the thread. And it also wasn't the only harsh comment in that thread. So if anyone deserves criticism, it's the Hacker News community for not showing a more compassionate side. I'd rather say it was the responsibility of the community as a whole rather than a single person.

It makes no sense to discuss if anything would be different if the HN community had responded differently to this story, but in general, giving an unsupportive collective response to someone who is down is probably not the best idea.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:23PM (#5057355)
> So if anyone deserves criticism, it's the Hacker News community for not showing a more compassionate side.

This is a general problem, not just for HN. The internet in the aggregate suffers from excessive binary thinking.

Everything has to be black and white, without room for colour or even shades of gray. So discussions tend to create their middle ground not by proportional movements but by jerks to +100 and -100. The more polarized the subject the stronger these reactions will be. Anything involving politics, a brush with the law, religion and so on will create those responses with a high degree of predictability.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:33PM (#5057671)
Aaron was never, even in our most paranoid fantasies revealed true with this case, in danger of actually spending 35 years in prison for this case.

Those who feel otherwise do not understand the U.S. Federal legal system. I would like to think Ed understood this when he wrote his original comment; I remember reading his comment at the time, and the only impression I got was that Aaron "dun goofed" and needed to skip to the part where he gets his light sentence. But that was under my assumption that even failing a jury trial with a strict judge couldn't result in more than a couple of years in prison.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by JohnsonB on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:43PM (#5057147)
The feds going after a 20-something idealistic activist, who we all knew was completely harmless, and hadn't committed a real crime? That can't be anything other than a severe and cruel abuse of power. I'm sorry but enough information was known at the time to conclude what was going on.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by RegEx on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:47PM (#5057175)
What information? I'd legitimately appreciate links/sources of the situation's severity other than hindsight.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by cstejerean on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:59PM (#5057221)
It didn't help that the people trying to shed light on the severity of the situation were met with comments like http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4529716
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by RegEx on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:06PM (#5057555)
That comment was in reply to

> If the feds get their way you'll know exactly where to find him for the next 35 years.

I'm asking if people actually knew facts, not some tin-foil hat speculation (even if the tin-foil hat was right on the money).

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by cstejerean on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:14PM (#5057587)
tptacek didn't appear to question Aaron facing 35 years in jail, he was simply stating that actually "spending" that time in jail is unlikely.

See for example another comment from him at http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4529809

Edit:

There was nothing tinfoil about it. The indictment was publicly available, and a cursory search of news.google.com also brings up articles like this one

http://techland.time.com/2011/07/19/reddit-co-founder-aaron-...

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by RegEx on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:20PM (#5057610)
I'm sorry, but I don't think you're replying to what I'm asking. I was looking for information from back then that sheds light on the severity of Aaron's situation, not just comments of the doubters. However, the stress of this thread is getting to me, and I need to back out. There's so much anger, sadness, and confusion concentrated in one place. I think it's best for me to step away for a couple of weeks.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by JohnsonB on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:05PM (#5057267)
It was known well in advance of that thread asking for help on HN that Aaron was facing major prison time from the prosecution by the feds, and we also knew a fairly detailed description of his 'crime', i.e. how he didn't really commit one.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:35PM (#5057684)
6-8 months is not "major" prison time by any reasonable definition of that term.

Using upper limits only for theoretically possible court sentences is the same tactic the RIAA/MPAA uses to characterize copyright infringement damages, and it's just as much of a propaganda tactic in support of aaronsw as it is in support of those clowns.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @08:40PM (#5057991)
> 6-8 months is not "major" prison time by any reasonable definition of that term.

That sounds like plenty 'major' for me. Have you been in prison? I have been in 'lock-up' for about 6 hours for the terrible crime of driving a foreign car in the Netherlands. I can tell you I did not enjoy it one little bit and the prospect of doing that 6 to 8 months would change me in ways that I would prefer not to think about. Jail is not funny, and multiple months are horrible, forget about years.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by firebones on Monday January 14, 2013 @11:50PM (#5058694)
Not to mention that a conviction under some of the charges he faced no doubt would have come with punitive terms that would bar him from computer and telecom use for many years beyond his actual sentence as terms of probation. For someone who grew up on the net, for whom much of his social support structure existed through virtual relationships, for whom identity and livelihood are defined by having access to these means of communication--the potential of that must have been a devastating prospect.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Monday January 14, 2013 @11:33PM (#5058640)
> Have you been in prison?

I've been in a submerged metal tube for some number of months. In many respects it's a worse environment than prison (though I can at least vouch for my fellow "inmates").

No email, no internet, no sleep, the stupid periscope watch with hydraulic oil dripping on your face.

Of course, I chose to do that. I would think that aaronsw knew that some nominal prison term would be a possibility of the choices he made, but I can only speak for myself.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @08:13AM (#5059886)
> I've been in a submerged metal tube for some number of months. In many respects it's a worse environment than prison (though I can at least vouch for my fellow "inmates").

I think a big difference with prison is that prison is not voluntary.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by mpyne on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @10:39AM (#5060603)
> I think a big difference with prison is that prison is not voluntary

I tried to note that, but to be more clear: If you voluntarily take actions, over a long period of time, that involve the possibility of prison as a direct consequence of those actions, then I don't think you get to act completely surprised or indignant.

It's the reason I didn't complain too much (then or now) about my "plight"; as you say, I chose to be there.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by tzs on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @12:37AM (#5058859)
His actions were not harmless, and seem to satisfy the elements of several real crimes [1].

[1] http://www.volokh.com/2013/01/14/aaron-swartz-charges/

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by geoka9 on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:34PM (#5057109)
> Can we please stop the mobbing? Thanks.

Can we just say it's a good a lesson to us all?

I understand what the OP must be going through now; it'd make anybody feel miserable.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by jacquesm on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:36PM (#5057119)
> Can we just say it's a good a lesson to us all?

I'm pretty sure that it is.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by irollboozers on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:08PM (#5057559)
How do we make sure we remember all the lessons in this? Are these just growing pains of the internet as a whole, or are we fated to relapse the next time it happens again?
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by tmoertel on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:51PM (#5057188)
Hindsight is not merely 20-20 but prevents us from seeing the past as it truly appeared. Because we cannot unknow what we now know, the mind's eye is an unreliable witness.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by doe88 on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:44PM (#5057732)
Exactly we should not mobbing on to Ed. We all make harsh comments sometimes at one point or another. We should only try to keep all this as a remainder that sometimes it's better not to make a comment than a comment too negative when it's made on a person and that it may affect him personally.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by baak on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:30PM (#5057088)
You're just as capable of hurting people. Maybe you just pushed someone over the edge by calling them scum. Tomorrow, will I get to call you names and talk about how your comment was excessively cruel and vitriolic? Do you know if the person you just blamed and insulted is stable and can handle it?
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by django34211 on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:18PM (#5057333)
Your logic makes no sense.

Geez, I didn't know I just as capable of hurting people. I learned some new on HN. Of course even the dumbest person in the world know this.

What matters is that those comments were hurting someone who was only looking for help. There is a big difference between someone who responds to comments and someone who attacking someone's call for help.

"Do you know if the person you just blamed and insulted is stable and can handle it?"

If you know someone is asking for help, why would you berate them. Please get a clue and increase your social IQ.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by baak on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:22PM (#5057350)
No. The difference between your comment and his is hindsight. Well, that and that his comment had some thought behind it. You are just as nasty with your commments and have absolutely no shame because you're anonymous.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by RegEx on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:24PM (#5057052)
And you sound like a drama queen. The severity was not conveyed. According to HN users in this thread, it couldn't be for whatever reasons. We didn't know the extent of the trouble. Sure, he was rude, and I don't like it when people are rude, but some people in this thread are making it sound like he pulled the fucking trigger. Give it a rest.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by django34211 on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:59PM (#5057226)
Why don't you "man up" and acknowledge, the comment was not only very distasteful, but extremely vitriolic and damaging for someone who was asking for help.

He was asking for help, is this the type of rude comment you make when someone ask for it.

Severity wasn't conveyed, what does everything have to be explicitly spelled out for you in order to understand.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by RegEx on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:45PM (#5057455)
You're too emotional to ration with. I hope you stop displacing anger in every which way.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by roguecoder on Monday January 14, 2013 @09:17PM (#5058164)
Ed commented in the general tone of HN. His comment was unexceptional, except that later events called it out as such.

Focusing on Ed is counter-productive. What should be the topic is the harmful, negative and alienating tone that HN comments adopt. The upvotes that such comments garner show that they are not individual actions, but rather the result of community incentives.

I'd like to hear suggestions of how to cultivate useful, supportive, productive comment threads. That is, of course, if the community decides it wants to change, rather than just heaping scorn on a single instance of a systematic problem.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by saraid216 on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:23PM (#5057050)
And you'd never say something like that yourself, amirite?
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by neumann_alfred on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:42PM (#5057445)
Not to mention it was the top comment

You say this as if it was the fault of the poster. Why did HN in general not upvote another, more positive comment? WTF kind of witch hunt is this even? I don't like the comment either, but cut it out, all of you.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:19PM (#5057030)
> Aaron should man up

And now we see the consequences of our society's sexism.

Nobody tells women to "man up".

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by gnaritas on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:34PM (#5057111)
I'm sure they do actually, but likely with slightly different language like "stop crying"; same thing. Just because a statement isn't gender neutral doesn't make it sexist.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by Mz on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:40PM (#5057135)
I am a woman. I go around telling women to "woman up". I try to do so in an empowering way and not be an asshole.

Fuck sexism though.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @05:52PM (#5057193)
> I am a woman. I go around telling women to "woman up".

Well, the difference between "woman up" and "man up" is that, for men, showing emotion is a sign of weakness, so "man up" means "don't show emotion". That's a very dangerous thing to tell people who have serious emotional problems.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by nostrademons on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:01PM (#5057243)
It's not, though. There's a perception that showing emotion is a sign of weakness for men. However, think about how you actually react to men who show emotion. How did you react to Lessig's or Doctorow's posts about Aaron, with all their emotion? Did you think them less of a man for it?

I think there is a strong taboo against men appearing out of control of themselves or their situation. But that's not really gendered: when women appear out of control, we label them "crazy bitches".

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by graue on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:10PM (#5057292)
> there is a strong taboo against men appearing out of control of themselves

Exactly. This applied to Aaron asking for help he badly needed for his legal fund. This did not apply to Larry or Cory. They may have been sad or angry, but they were not personally scared, threatened, unable to fund their own legal defenses, etc., so they did not violate the taboo. Their posts were more along the lines of a father mourning a lost son. Emotion is expected there.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:11PM (#5057571)
"There's a perception that showing emotion is a sign of weakness for men."

Which is why berating someone with gendered terms is pretty futile, it encourages people to clam up and compartmentalize unhealthily.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by graue on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:07PM (#5057275)
Absolutely. This is a perfect example of how restrictive gender norms (or, what some might call "patriarchy") can harm men as well as women, and are something we all need to care about.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:25PM (#5057372)
> This is a perfect example of how restrictive gender norms (or, what some might call "patriarchy") can harm men as well as women

And this is why I hate the term "patriarchy" in this context: It implies men always get the best of it, there are no downsides for males, and therefore we should be dismissive of male problems.

I know this isn't what academic feminists think. It is, however, what a disturbing number of people who call themselves feminists out in the real world apparently believe.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by graue on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:48PM (#5057472)
Yup. Male privilege exists and is real (and unfair), yet it is also true that gender norms can harm men. It's a shame so many folks act like the truth of one of those statements disproves the other. I guess the combined statement is too subtle to fit in a sound bite or rallying cry.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:14PM (#5057583)
"And this is why I hate the term "patriarchy" in this context: It implies men always get the best of it, there are no downsides for males, and therefore we should be dismissive of male problems."

Feminism benefits men as well. Patriarchy DOES exist to the detriment to men, your anger is misapplied.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @07:53PM (#5057758)
> Feminism benefits men as well.

It depends on how it's applied, doesn't it?

> Patriarchy DOES exist to the detriment to men

Thank you for restating my point.

> your anger is misapplied.

How? I don't understand how my anger is misapplied here.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Monday January 14, 2013 @08:19PM (#5057877)
"> Feminism benefits men as well. It depends on how it's applied, doesn't it?"

Destroying systems of entrenched privilege may not be viewed as beneficial by all men that cling to these systems, no. But equality does provide for a healthier system, if one appreciates women healthy in mind and body.

Harping on straw "Feminists" won't improve our situation.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Monday January 14, 2013 @09:01PM (#5058078)
"And this is an example. It states that gender equality from the female perspective is automatically equivalent to "Destroying systems of entrenched privilege", which is a courtesy not given to the male perspective on the same concepts."

As I stated, it does by lessening strict gender roles.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @09:54PM (#5058298)
> As I stated, it does by lessening strict gender roles.

But that's also true of looking at gender equality from the male perspective, yet whenever someone attempts that the old MRA strawman stereotypes get thrown around.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Monday January 14, 2013 @11:09PM (#5058570)
"But that's also true of looking at gender equality from the male perspective, yet whenever someone attempts that the old MRA strawman stereotypes get thrown around."

Generally, it's because MRAs tend to find gains for women zero-sum. There are issues with regards to divorce, child support, and custody that can be discussed, but all these can be addressed as a feminist and do not require "masculinism" as some sort of a counter. There is a difference between discussion of gender and the movement's adherents.

http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/br...

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @12:50AM (#5058898)
"In my experience, any mention of the idea that men can be raped by women, for example, gets shouted down by 'feminists'"

Like I said, there's no need to craft Straw Feminists from whole cloth. Make your points without these fabrications.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @01:52AM (#5059079)
> Like I said, there's no need to craft Straw Feminists from whole cloth. Make your points without these fabrications.

I'm not lying and your need to claim I am damages your case.

An example from Reddit, which is very much the non-academic Real World I've been talking about:

ImaLamer:

> As someone who was raped by a woman, while drinking, something you've put full responsibility on her for in other comments, you quickly dismissed my feelings and the impact this has in my life. It was not statistically significant for you to care. So much so you took it as an opportunity to further bash men as a class.

Saganomics:

> Well ladies and gentleman, that's what Men's Rights thinks. There you have it.

http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/168bwu/you_guys_may_hav...

The claim of ImaLamer's post being edited afterwords is difficult to take seriously: Edited posts are marked with an asterisk, which is not present on ImaLamer's post. Also, Saganomics' post happened long after the very brief window when you can edit without an asterisk appearing.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by illuminate on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @10:46AM (#5060665)
"An example from Reddit, which is very much the non-academic Real World I've been talking about:"

Seeing as they did not state what you claim that they did, you still lack for example.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @12:17AM (#5058789)
> Generally, it's because MRAs tend to find gains for women zero-sum.

The stereotypical MRA does.

> There are issues with regards to divorce, child support, and custody that can be discussed, but all these can be addressed as a feminist and do not require "masculinism" as some sort of a counter.

Your experience might be different than mine. In my experience, any mention of the idea that men can be raped by women, for example, gets shouted down by 'feminists' (you can take that label as you will) as 'hijacking' the 'real' discussion, which is solely about men raping women. Men being raped by men is, at best, a side-show to that discussion. Women being raped by women is similarly absent as a topic.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by derleth on Monday January 14, 2013 @08:32PM (#5057948)
> Harping on straw "Feminists" won't improve our situation.

Mentioning they exist is not the same as harping on them.

And this points out an asymmetry: Whenever a man focuses on the male perspective of gender equality, people drag out the 'MRA' stereotype. While the stereotypical MRA exists, that stereotype is no more relevant to the issue than the stereotypical straw feminist is relevant to the female perspective of gender equality. Yet, online, in the real world outside of the academy, that MRA stereotype is in constant use.

> Destroying systems of entrenched privilege may not be viewed as beneficial by all men that cling to these systems

And this is an example. It states that gender equality from the female perspective is automatically equivalent to "Destroying systems of entrenched privilege", which is a courtesy not given to the male perspective on the same concepts.

This asymmetry is divisive and serves to perpetuate the pointless hatred that keeps equality from being realized.

Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by dyno12345 on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:10PM (#5057291)
I don't think it's showing emotion, I think that it's that we expect men to be self-reliant and should not need or want help from others. Men are responsible for their own outcomes. Women aren't seen as any worse for wanting help, and it's acceptable to attribute their outcomes as caused by their relationships or social environment.
Re:Aaron Swartz, Asking For Help, 119 Days Ago by Mz on Monday January 14, 2013 @06:04PM (#5057261)
I don't understand it that way, but I grew up with a father who fought in two wars and was not afraid to cry in front of others.

Maybe you missed my general sentiment: Fuck sexism though. I think you and I are talking at cross purposes.