Systemically, you might be thinking too much about rationalism, and feeling superior, and not enough about how your choices make other people feel. Feelings aren’t rational; in fact, studies of the brain show that feelings come first and the rational explanation comes later. The only way to elicit a rational response from people is to talk in a way that makes them feel interested in what you have to say, at that comes from how you say it as much as what you say.
This is a forum frequented by VCs, programmers, and other sophisticated people, man. IRL is a totally different thing.
If you're itching to longhouse your intellectual superiors, go to Facebook, a place even yet more distant than IRL in its own twisted ways but that's what that place is for.