I think there are a few potential solutions.

- Currently, the dominant ideology is that there is a victim hierarchy, and if you're in the wrong group (ie, you're privileged) then your opinions and needs don't matter. Moving away from this sort of identitarianism would one important step.

- I think it's important to try to understand why male socialization has fallen apart. (statistically, yes, I'm sure a lot of you still socialize) It's clearly a gendered effect, and I'm genuinely not sure what a reasonable explanation would be. (your comment, men supporting men would play nicely here, although I'm not sure how we make that happen.)

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If we look at history of our spieces, we came down from a tree 5min ago.

We are in 95% still the same animal and 5% intelligent human.

Vast majority of all of our weird discussions is about us not accepting this fact.

In this case its:

1) Men are competing with each other for resources and women

2) Women only want strong resourceful men

3) Our only purpose was defined by first living cell being born - we have to sustain life

Outcome of the above is:

Nobody cares about men that dont succceed (which ofcourse will cause a lot of men depression).

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The above are indeed simple, hard, physical facts of the matter that few wish to address.

edit: typo