It's quiet only if the server accepts it and then deletes it on their end, but if your mail provider shreds your mail that's then also your provider's responsibility and not the sender's
I had a legal dispute once where a shop didn't provide warranty on a product. They took the product in but then it was indefinitely in repair. Long story short, it ended up being helpful that I have email server logs that show every transaction, so that I could say "on date+time the email was delivered to IP address X, which was registered as the mail exchanger for your domain, and your server took the email with status code XYZ Queued <ID> For Delivery." I got the money back after that
Afaik that's not what Microsoft/Hotmail does though: since it rejects, you get a delivery failure notification
> The sender gets a bounce
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