> we don't actually know how to properly value things
Nor should we! That would be like a formal theory for deriving all truth. It would be awful absolutism (and wouldn't actually be real).
Well, all moral truth, anyway. Wouldn't tell you much about physics.
If you had such a theory, you would have a much easier time using taxes to reward things that society benefits from, and dissuade things that society suffers from. It's a complicated subject.
Your concern is absolutely spot-on.