Bill Gates who became a billionaire out of writing software built a company that always had as a mission commoditizing software engineering work
Professionals (members of a profession) self-police, something software engineers don’t do.
The Bar exam in the US didn't start until the 1780's, so lawyers before then weren't "real" professionals either?
It's a ridiculous argument.
A better one might be that the externalities and opportunities for software engineering to kill people, or be directly tied to deaths or negative outcomes, didn't exist or weren't well enough documented until recently. As an immature field/industry that's not surprising, but it does point to a responsibility by the community to push for standards that don't currently exist.
This isn't because you're a "real" engineer, it's because of regulation and industry licensing around specific engineering disciplines that didn't exist until the start of the 20th century. Railroad engineers in the 1800's didn't have the same set of regulations to follow, or the same liability for mistakes.
Software engineering could have similar regulation and licensing set up, though I think you'd find it to be an impossible uphill battle in today's world against the lobbying power of the big tech companies.