Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by nicpottier on Thursday January 22, 2026 @10:21AM
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Pretty sure the right move as soon as he said "I didn't write that" was to just say. "It isn't important who wrote it, we all make mistakes, let's see together how we could have done better."
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by chrisjj on Thursday January 22, 2026 @12:24PM
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Pretty sure that can be the wrong move in an instance where it does matter who wrote that. Freely allowing derogation of authorship soon fosters derogation of responsibility.
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by pseudalopex on Thursday January 22, 2026 @12:46PM
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Mistakes are allowed is a good lesson. Lying is allowed is a bad lesson.
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by littlecranky67 on Thursday January 22, 2026 @01:54PM
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Today, I would maybe agree and have grown wiser. But software engineering is 50% failure management. And admitting failure should be normal for every level, I am very open and outspoken that I (just as every other guy) makes errors all day. We literally have error management system in place because of that - Bugtrackers, Test pyramid, QA departments etc. It is simple not helpful if people not take accountability and grow on their mistakes.
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by JohnTHaller on Thursday January 22, 2026 @08:19PM
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If someone isn't willing to admit a mistake, it's not someone you ever want to work with. Or live with for that matter.
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by nmstoker on Thursday January 22, 2026 @10:31AM
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Denial in the face of incontrovertible evidence undermines trust to an extent incompatible with working in any serious organisation.
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by uygg777 on Thursday January 22, 2026 @11:08AM
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I’m Indian. I absolutely loathe this part of Indian culture. My uncle was once eating a pizza like a naan (ripping pieces off straight from the box) and I called him out on it, and he said he wasn’t doing anything like that…while holding a piece of naan and the pizza looking like rats had a party with it.
It happens basically constantly, I have never heard my family admit to a mistake unless violently confronted by someone with authority.
Leads to all sorts of issues and societal breakdowns, like police beating people up before even trying to communicate.
Re:We will ban you and ridicule you in public if you waste o...
by bigstrat2003 on Thursday January 22, 2026 @12:46PM
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I'm curious if you tried to explain to the guy that lying to you undermined his reputation far more than any mistake he made in the first place, and if so how that went. That's something I would fire someone for if it was in my power. Making mistakes is ok, but lying about it is absolutely not.
I had more of those interactions, and we also exchanged some of the indian devs (they were sold to the client by a big consulting group, and immediately replaced by someone else if we wished). I later found out, people that I have had replaced in my sqaud for not being qualified, ended up in different teams in the same corporation, they were basically just moving around inhouse.
After a few month in the project I swore to myself never to work with offshores again. And as a side note, the bank I did the project with, does not exist anymore :)