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Re:I rebooted my social life by Kiro on Thursday January 01, 2026 @05:46PM (#46459030)
I used to be like you, living my life based on external beliefs of what I "should" do. Once I realized that I didn't have to all my stress disappeared and I've never been happier.
Re:I rebooted my social life by maplant on Thursday January 01, 2026 @05:58PM (#46459129)
People told me I "should" exercise for years and I didn't, but when I did I suddenly got a lot less depressed and my life turned around for the better so I'm going to continue to trust other people
Re:I rebooted my social life by calf on Thursday January 01, 2026 @07:13PM (#46459749)
There is a deep irony in an argument that pushes a pro-socializing view in a black-and-white, authoritarian way, "shoulding" statements, shaming tactics. It's actually anti-social, and the authors of the cited paper probably would not agree.
Re:I rebooted my social life by maplant on Friday January 02, 2026 @09:58AM (#46465356)
I very much doubt that the authors would disagree with the statement that socializing is a fundamental human need considering they wrote it themselves
Re:I rebooted my social life by mrwrong on Friday January 02, 2026 @01:51PM (#46468029)
nobody's trying to force you to socialize, it's just advice. take it or leave it
Re:I rebooted my social life by dukeyukey on Friday January 02, 2026 @04:59AM (#46463251)
You won't be happier if you don't eat healthy, stay indoors al day, avoid talking to anyone, never exercise, never clean up, because those things are considered a chore. There are things people avoid doing that are still needed to be healthy!