if u absolutely want a sexual metaphor it's more like you snuck into the world record for how many sexual parteners a woman can take in 24h and even tho you aren't on the list you still got to smash.

solution is the same, implement better security

Thank you for finding the right metaphor. If there is a sign out front that has a list of individuals that should go away but they continue, they're in a lot of legal trouble. If they show a fake ID to the event organizers that are handling all the paperwork, that is also something that will land them in prison.

They also conveniently missed the point that it was about victim blaming.