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Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by influx on Monday August 11, 2025 @07:34AM (#44863045)
What do people talk about in your country?
Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by jascha_eng on Monday August 11, 2025 @07:42AM (#44863112)
politics, music, food (Berlin here)
Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by kace91 on Monday August 11, 2025 @09:43AM (#44863972)
I guess the general stuff is movies, Netflix shows, music, your last short weekend trip, and pretty much everyone has their own personal non work thing, usually attached to a club or group (hiking, photography, whatever).

I guess in that last category sports are commonplace, but it’s more “I’m training for a marathon next month” or “you should come bouldering sometime” rather than following professional sports on tv.

Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by chatmasta on Monday August 11, 2025 @10:41AM (#44864668)
This sounds like it’s particular to your friend group rather than some coarse regional geography. If you toss a rock in Western Europe, you’ve got a better chance of hitting a football fan than someone who wants to go bouldering or train for a marathon.
Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by kace91 on Monday August 11, 2025 @03:53PM (#44868701)
>If you toss a rock in Western Europe, you’ve got a better chance of hitting a football fan than someone who wants to go bouldering or train for a marathon.

Yes and no. If you HAVE to choose a specific hobby, football will have more chances than others; but it will still work in a minority of cases and assuming carries an implication.

A comparison I could make is starting a conversation in the US with 'did you watch fox news yesterday?'. Out of all channels, it's the most watched one; but you still have high chances of asking a non-viewer, and then get hit by negative connotations.

Personal hobbies are much better topic for various reasons (you don't assume, people will naturally be exited about discussing their own, etc).