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Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by kace91 on Monday August 11, 2025 @07:20AM (#44862954)
In my country (western Europe) talking about hunting/fishing would put get you side looks and take you for a very rural or conservative weirdo.

Sports and cars is more common with the older generation, but anyone below 35 will probably be uninterested, unless your circle is finance or blue collar work.

Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by influx on Monday August 11, 2025 @07:34AM (#44863045)
What do people talk about in your country?
Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by jascha_eng on Monday August 11, 2025 @07:42AM (#44863112)
politics, music, food (Berlin here)
Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by kace91 on Monday August 11, 2025 @09:43AM (#44863972)
I guess the general stuff is movies, Netflix shows, music, your last short weekend trip, and pretty much everyone has their own personal non work thing, usually attached to a club or group (hiking, photography, whatever).

I guess in that last category sports are commonplace, but it’s more “I’m training for a marathon next month” or “you should come bouldering sometime” rather than following professional sports on tv.

Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by chatmasta on Monday August 11, 2025 @10:41AM (#44864668)
This sounds like it’s particular to your friend group rather than some coarse regional geography. If you toss a rock in Western Europe, you’ve got a better chance of hitting a football fan than someone who wants to go bouldering or train for a marathon.
Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by kace91 on Monday August 11, 2025 @03:53PM (#44868701)
>If you toss a rock in Western Europe, you’ve got a better chance of hitting a football fan than someone who wants to go bouldering or train for a marathon.

Yes and no. If you HAVE to choose a specific hobby, football will have more chances than others; but it will still work in a minority of cases and assuming carries an implication.

A comparison I could make is starting a conversation in the US with 'did you watch fox news yesterday?'. Out of all channels, it's the most watched one; but you still have high chances of asking a non-viewer, and then get hit by negative connotations.

Personal hobbies are much better topic for various reasons (you don't assume, people will naturally be exited about discussing their own, etc).

Re:Basic Social Skills Guide by chatmasta on Monday August 11, 2025 @10:39AM (#44864648)
Is this a function of Western Europe, or an urban area? There’s quite a bit of hunting and fishing in rural Western Europe…