Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted to 4chan

Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by standardUser on Friday July 25, 2025 @04:49PM (#44688281)

As a man, I find it absurd and even dangerous to not attach some stigma to men. That you feel the need to invoke "dangerous savages" is maybe your own prerogative, but by any sober and fact-based analysis it is indisputable that women are justified in acting cautiously when dealing with strange men.

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Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by throwanem on Friday July 25, 2025 @07:26PM (#44689715)

I'm justified in acting cautiously when dealing with strange pit bulls, too. That isn't the same as saying pit bulls deserve to be stigmatized. Or I don't think it is.

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Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by fsckboy on Friday July 25, 2025 @07:10PM (#44689601)

mothers are more than twice as likely as fathers to kill their children. and the same is true for child abuse and neglect.

humans in general act like psychos, the danger comes more from the size differential than propensity to act like a jerk.

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Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by standardUser on Friday July 25, 2025 @07:19PM (#44689661)

Most violence is perpetrated by men. If you're only response to that hard, cold fact is some stat about infanticide, maybe you're not honestly grappling with the issue.

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Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by throwawayq3423 on Saturday July 26, 2025 @03:22AM (#44692109)

Most violence is perpetrated by men, but men are also equal victims.

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Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by throwawayq3423 on Sunday July 27, 2025 @11:05PM (#44706822)

I just looked it up, 5,000 women were the victims of homicide last year. 13,000 men were. So, unequal.

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Re:Women dating safety app 'Tea' breached, users' IDs posted... by huhkerrf on Saturday July 26, 2025 @04:10PM (#44696612)

And yet domestic violence is equally done by men and women, except that most men don't report the abuse because of people like you who act like it doesn't happen. It's disappointing.

You bring up fact based analyses. Let's see what they have to say.

> Over two hundred studies found that men and women perpetrate intimate partner violence at roughly equivalent rates, depending on where the samples are drawn from, and what level of violence is identified. (Dutton and Nicholls, 2005).

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog...

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