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Re:I want to leave tech: what do I do? by hn_throwaway_99 on Friday July 04, 2025 @11:10PM (#44469853)
It always astounds me of how relatively well-off people simply cannot even fathom how the vast, vast majority of Americans with kids manage to get by without paying $2k/month/kid in childcare expenses.
Re:I want to leave tech: what do I do? by deadbabe on Saturday July 05, 2025 @02:07AM (#44470442)
Sounds very illegal, just leaving kids at home alone all day
Re:I want to leave tech: what do I do? by hn_throwaway_99 on Saturday July 05, 2025 @03:21PM (#44474888)
OK, I'll bite. Are you a single parent? If so, I agree, but I think most single parents aren't worried about downsizing - they're worried about how to both work and raise their kids at the same time.

If you are in a situation with two parents making a professional level salary, which I suspect is the case given you stated paying $2k/kid/month for child care, well frankly you should STFU. In those cases, that is simply a choice you are making. There are certainly other options (which millions of people do because they don't have a choice), so you're not garnering much sympathy pleading poverty because you have to pay for your children's daycare.