Some of the spending probably does fit that description, but I bet if we had a truth oracle that could actually tell us, it would be a lot less than you think.
(I also happen to think that our polity should assist the least fortunate on its own merits, but you may not)
What does this mean?
I want exactly 0 of my dollars going to sex change operations in other countries.
I want $0 of my tax dollars going to bombs to Israel
I want $0 of my tax dollars spent on military bases abroad.
Let's curtail the big stuff and then we can pinch the pennies.
There are much bigger problems than gay people in Uganda in the world. Enough problems to eat up all the taxes Americans pay. You have to draw the line somewhere.
If people want to support that kind of charity, that’s their business. The government taking your money at gunpoint to do it is ridiculous.
Your apparent lack of tolerance for things that do not directly serve your self interest is short sighted and foolhardy. It's sad that your way of thinking has carried the day in the US.