On Bluesky they just apply a label and users are free to toggle it as show/warn/hide. At least, this is what I've personally experienced using the site.
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Disclaimer: what I wrote here is explicitly aimed at the post I replied to. Not to anybody else.
A lot of the other thirstposting is, from my experience, very much genuine and heartfelt.
The trans community is often quite open.
I'm personally transgender, monogamous and mostly lesbian, so I'm a bit of a "boring" outlier when it comes to the poly & kink communities. But I spend a LOT of time in trans spaces. Online and offline. Professionally and casually. Younger and older. Political and friendly.
Etc
You need to get out in the world more, that's a very limited locale specific PoV.
68% seems 'mostly'.
As does this map: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/trans-pop...
/ˈməʊs(t)li/ adverb as regards the greater part or number.
The "worldpopulationreview" data has shortcomings. An obvious (for any with a background in data collection) reporting bias for one ..
If not, I'm happy to walk you through some of it - it'd impress more if you can come back with a global average figure for transgenderism and some thoughts on why (for example) Indonesia has such a large population and yet such low official figures (43K IIRC rather than >> 3 million).
Forget the transgender part and think of this as a data exercise.
Even (cis) men have "locker room talk," things you wouldn't say when around most women.
Dunno, if you can't say it around women, at all ever, then it probably doesn't hold up to scrutiny. I'd say you share raunchy stuff with people you know to not have a problem with it, and depending on what it is that might be your guy friends more often, sure. But I know men who are way more stuck up than some women I know, not even a contest. If I was in a big group of guys and there was the expressed or implied statement of "okay, since we're amongst heterosexual men only now, we can say certain things we normally can't say" I would just get out.
That's not a statement on the site OP posted, I just disagree that cis men say stuff amongst themselves they wouldn't around women, while homosexual or bisexual men would never do that. There's bigots and people who can actually own what they say anywhere, no group is purely saint or evil.
Nothing they said implied the 2nd part even slightly. And not because most homosexual and bisexual men are cis.