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Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by watwut on Monday January 20, 2025 @12:35PM (#42771017)
> There are real questions about bathrooms, women's sports, and when medical interventions are called for.

Yes there are real questions, but there are also real answers. Currently, 99% of people asking questions have literally zero interest in answers. They do not care about what research say or whether there is harm or not. They ask questions to convince the audience about their political project.

They do not care about whether medical interventions are good, bad, safe or unsafe. They want to convince you that that they are unsafe. They want to stop the interventions regardless of their impact. They do not care about safety of bathrooms, they want you to punish transgender people in the wrong bathroom. They do not care about women sports either, in fact they are the same people arguing against women sports whereever it matters.

> People can think poorly of you for whatever reason they want.

And it should be my god give right to call them sexist and racists if they think of me poorly because of those reasons. But somehow that is supposed to be a taboo. We are all supposed to pretend there is no sexism, that there was no historical sexism, so that someone feels good about themselves. Again and again, sjws pointed out someone is sexist/racist, there was an outrage in response, they were painted crazy stupid exaggerating. And I actually believe the response, multiple times. Except that it turned out, multiple times, that they were right all along.

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by Freak_NL on Monday January 20, 2025 @01:03PM (#42771322)
Besides, the whole bathroom thing is so old hat. You know what I hate in a bathroom? Other people. Of any gender. Thankfully, stalls have doors.

I miss the days of Ally McBeal when unisex bathrooms were hip and the future.

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by watwut on Monday January 20, 2025 @01:16PM (#42771435)
In my local city there was conservative article about unisex bathroom putting framing it as transgender thing.

The bathroom was unisex when I was a kid, when trans were universally mocked. Bathroom is unisex, cause there is exactly one toilette in a small cafe in a super old building.

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by samastur on Monday January 20, 2025 @05:01PM (#42773585)
Unisex bathrooms mean women get to clean the bathrooms again because men can't be bothered to aim or sit.
Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by Freak_NL on Tuesday January 21, 2025 @05:21AM (#42778414)
You can file that one with the other bathroom myth: cleaning staff knows that the really, really filthy bathrooms are the women's bathrooms¹.

People are (and have) assholes. Hardly an argument against unisex bathrooms.

1: https://www.rsvplive.ie/life/womens-toilets-much-dirtier-men...

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by coderc on Monday January 20, 2025 @01:06PM (#42771351)
I would think that your claim about "99% of people asking questions have literally zero interest in answers" applies more to 'both sides' than one might initially think.

Is either side open to being told "no", or at least "wait, we need to be more cautious about this"? Or do both sides just want their demands to be accepted?

Would either side actually back down if the research said that what they were doing was harmful or ineffective?

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by watwut on Monday January 20, 2025 @01:13PM (#42771411)
> "wait, we need to be more cautious about this"? Or do both sides just want their demands to be accepted?

I think that yours "wait, we need to be more cautious about this" or is this just another "I do not care about answers, I just want to pretend so".

> Would either side actually back down if the research said that what they were doing was harmful or ineffective?

Research is there and it is saying current clinics were not harmful and were not ineffective. So yes, one side cares about research and the other is not.

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by coderc on Monday January 20, 2025 @02:19PM (#42772057)
>I think that yours "wait, we need to be more cautious about this" or is this just another "I do not care about answers, I just want to pretend so".

I don't know what you're referring to, but if you would like to get specific about it, many authoritative medical organizations, such as the one that presides over Sweden, have declared a halt on procedures such as prescribing puberty blockers to minors. This is an example of a "wait, we need to be more cautious about this", saying that the risks outweigh the benefits.

https://segm.org/Swedish-2022-trans-guidelines-youth-experim...

But here you are implying that the science is already "settled" and that there is no harm. So when you say that one side cares about the research and the other does not, are you completely sure about that?

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by watwut on Monday January 20, 2025 @03:37PM (#42772765)
I am completely sure about that, yes. Because even your "many authoritative medical organizations" thing cherry picks one organization saying maybe and ignores any positive results entirely.

You do not care about which procedures were actually done nor about what it took to get them. Puberty blockers for minors are not something new or done to transgender kids only. They have been used for years for non-transgender kids and they are not the only treatment constantly under attack.

If you cared about puberty blockers safety, you would care about also about when they work, you would care about accessibility when they do work ... and you would not act as if they were so easy to get in the first place.

And that last thing gives the game away.

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by coderc on Monday January 20, 2025 @03:52PM (#42772917)
It's not just Sweden, I could list other countries too, such as Denmark, Finland, England (outside of trials), Wales and Scotland. Norway calls it "experimental". All this information was found on the homepage of the same site I linked earlier.

But you don't seem to be open to discussion on this issue, and that's the double standard I'm pointing out. "They do not care about what research say or whether there is harm or not" is what you've said about others, and it seems like it applies equally to you as well.

And since you don't seem to be open to discussion on this issue, I'm going to leave it here. I think my point has been made.

Re:I Met Paul Graham Once by itsoktocry on Monday January 20, 2025 @05:06PM (#42773642)
>They do not care about what research say

No, we do not care about "research" that says men and women have equivalent physical abilities and sports performance. It's ludicrous.

>They do not care about safety of bathrooms

I care a lot about bathroom safety. Does safety only matter for transgender bathroom users?