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Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by dinosaurdynasty on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @04:22PM (#42505019)
> Having to have everything scheduled weeks in advance

I don't see how WFH makes this worse, in fact it probably makes it better (less time spent commuting, more ability to end the day early with a flexible employer, etc)

Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by doubled112 on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @05:06PM (#42505270)
It worked this way for me in the neighbourhood.

Maybe it was pandemic, maybe it was all that free time, but suddenly we all noticed each other. I had never even spoken to some of these people before.

Suddenly we were all spending time in the same place instead of waving as we drove by on our way to work and taking kids to activities.

Now I have friends. I don’t go to work then come home and stay inside.

Plus working from home I have time to get involved in some of the kid’s activities and made more friends.

Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by droidist2 on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @05:57PM (#42505550)
If you don't waste that time scrolling Instagram, Reddit, etc.
Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by skeeter2020 on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @08:44PM (#42506272)
If you are or know someone who uses the time savings from not commuting to persue anything outside the house, you are in the vast minority.
Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by defrost on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @08:56PM (#42506320)
That seems like a local from your PoV thing.

That overwhelming majority of people I know that have been doing WFH on and off for a decade work regular hours and spend the remainder (time otherwise commuting) socialising (outside the house), sports, gardening, building projects, etc.

IRL AFK at least - the 24/7 gamers and shutin's likely have a different world view, but they appear to be in a minoity albeit one perhaps growing.

Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by Jensson on Wednesday December 25, 2024 @03:06AM (#42507598)
> That overwhelming majority of people I know

You probably wont get to know a lot of people who don't go outside their house, so pretty biased sample there.

Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by defrost on Wednesday December 25, 2024 @04:13AM (#42507822)
At least as biased as the sample of the commenter I replied to.

Which is pretty much the subtext of my comment.

Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by jmathai on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @09:15PM (#42506386)
I don’t think they are in the majority, but it doesn’t have to be typical social activities like sports. I spend time WFH dropping and picking up my 3yo from pre school. In doing so I meet a number of parents from the community.
Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by cableshaft on Wednesday December 25, 2024 @03:28AM (#42507684)
Not necessarily during the week, but I have more energy and time for it on the weekends, thanks to not commuting. Do some cleaning during the week so there's not so much that needs to be done on the weekend.
Re:Why making friends as an adult is hard by chiefalchemist on Tuesday December 24, 2024 @09:28PM (#42506444)
It can be both.

For some WFH will be a big win. But for others a big loss.

How big the big losse are will depend on the individual and their willingness to take action(s) to mitigate the loss.