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Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by askafriend on Wednesday December 04, 2024 @11:05AM (#42318816)
Allow me to be crude for a second: half the people in software are likely autistic so I'm not surprised they struggle with building or maintaining relationships.
Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by dennis_jeeves2 on Wednesday December 04, 2024 @12:57PM (#42320063)
Yes, I did figure that out, they are idiot savants of sorts.
Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by chefandy on Wednesday December 04, 2024 @02:52PM (#42321338)
Some of the most loyal and connected colleagues I've had have been autists. I have a lot in my family so there's probably some amount of "safe person" vibes I give off, but in my experience, many autists realize the value of someone they can feel comfortable talking to and confiding in that can comfortably navigate social situations and professional communication. Lots of "I just don't understand why they reacted like that-- what's your take?" kind of conversations. Most of these folks have been younger than me, though, so there could well be some other cultural factor at play: some way that young people are getting different experiences/skills/comfort levels now, or maybe their interaction style/strategy will change as they get older?
Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by mp05 on Wednesday December 04, 2024 @05:50PM (#42322924)
Honest question: has the software profession not been democratized to the point where "neurotypical" people have come to overtake these jobs from those stereotypical "basement dwellers"? Or would you argue that being on the autistic spectrum provides one with abilities that their unaffected counterparts cannot possess?
Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by mrcptthrowaway on Wednesday December 04, 2024 @07:46PM (#42323658)
Autistic people have bottom up processing. So when an autistic person gets into software engineering, it's likely that they have a "first principle" style of thinking.

Many neurotypicals I see don't have that as their default processing mode. They can do it, but it's not their default.

So what you get is something that you can see with blind people as well: they get better at hearing because they spend much more time with it compared to people that can see (except for musicians, etc.).

Autistic software engineers spend a lot more time with bottom up style thinking (aka being detailed).

I'm on the spectrum too, mostly a non-stereotypical representation.

Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by mp05 on Saturday December 07, 2024 @01:13PM (#42351576)
This feels like a broad generalization. While some autistic people may lean toward bottom-up thinking, it's not universal, and plenty of neurotypicals excel at it too. The analogy with blind people and hearing doesn't really work either, since autistic engineers aren’t compensating for anything in the same way. Processing styles are much more complex than neurotype labels.

FWIW I am on the spectrum and am working on precision psychiatry with autistic individuals for my graduate thesis. I don't buy a lot of the stereotypes often peddled about spergy software guys. I find a lot of these people to be quite problematic as coworkers, regardless of how talented they may be.

Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by mrcptthrowaway on Wednesday December 04, 2024 @07:47PM (#42323667)
Yep, I thought this was a ridiculous statement. Then I got diagnosed in my mid thirties because of sleeping issues. My psychologist needed to evaluate everything about me and diagnosed me as autistic, despite not really having social issues that much right now (it's because the science of social skills is one of my special interests).
Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by Muromec on Thursday December 05, 2024 @02:19AM (#42325807)
No big surprise here -- autism is not a social or emotional imparement anyway and the doll test is a lie.
Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by baxuz on Thursday December 05, 2024 @03:26AM (#42326140)
> Autism is not a social or emotional impairment

That is blatantly false.

Re:How to Grow Professional Relationships by Muromec on Thursday December 05, 2024 @05:06PM (#42333375)
That's what normies want you to believe.