I dropped out of a US-state public medical school pre-ACA ("Obamacare") and am grateful every day.

The decade+ since I have helped several friends die more dignifiedly, including my own mother.

Take advantage every. fucking. day. and get your Last Wishes in order (e.g. EoL options/terminations; DNR; who-do-what?)

In the chaos of the inevitable stroke/heart attack (which will kill many of us, reading and writing this very comment), your un-informed family will be in even more chaotic whorlwind than our soon-to-be medically-endebted patient/cadaver.

Best wishes to all.