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Re:Stop postponing things by embracing the mess by bloopernova on Wednesday February 21, 2024 @09:58AM (#39454596)
I'm sorry that happened to you. The phrase that made my then wife an ex-wife for me was "you're not supposed to be fixing yourself you're supposed to be fixing our marriage!"

Led me (with therapy and time) to realize what I meant to her; I was an accessory.

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Re:Stop postponing things by embracing the mess by camillomiller on Wednesday February 21, 2024 @11:28AM (#39455861)
Oh wow, glad for you she’s ex now
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Re:Stop postponing things by embracing the mess by brnt on Wednesday February 21, 2024 @03:52PM (#39459385)
Wut, wild for her to not see how those two are so interlinked that separating them is considered old fashioned nowadays by therapists.
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