I will not comment on other people’s lives. I will say in my experience in the workplace the worst most unethical decisions took place simply because someone misunderstood and became offended by an action they took personally. In pressured environments that is what can be a catalyst to a snap decision with big implications in a situation where one would assume simple logic and professionalism would dominate.

Between all of them, together, in one happy polycule.

Just to be clear about the tone here: I personally have an extremely very positive opinion on polyamorous, sexually open people, micro-dosing psychedelics, going to burning man, all the effective autism, biohacking, etc. I mean, I do almost all of these things, including being on a spectrum and suffering from ADHD at the same time, if my psychologist is to be believed. But this doesn't stop me from recognising how stereotypical and funny all of this is.