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Re:How to boss without being bossy by TylerE on Sunday November 12, 2023 @02:16AM (#38238085)
It's not that it reads as optional to me, as that it's kinda hard to read without seeing the implied "you should have done this already, without being told".
Re:How to boss without being bossy by anymouse123456 on Monday November 13, 2023 @07:15AM (#38249348)
The tone, trust and context are massively important in these kinds of communications.

I don't think I've ever used this phrasing in writing, maybe because I also hear something similar to what you're hearing when I read it to myself...