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Re:Half a Million Kinksters Can't Be Wrong by rayiner on Saturday October 07, 2023 @08:30PM (#37806799)
Yeah, but polygamy specifically is one of the things that western society has tried to wipe out for pretty good reasons. It’s usually horrible for women and children.

> Some of us were tagging along on logistics runs and meeting the Minangkabau, the Bugis, the Fore, and many many other people in the 1960s

See my point about small populations. Indonesia has 278 million people, of which the Minangkabau comprise 8 million. What’s the gender norms of the dominant Javanese culture? Are they accepting of polyamory?

And white travelers like Gauguin really have little insight into foreign cultures. Sex tourism is much more a legacy of colonialism than monogamy.

Re:Half a Million Kinksters Can't Be Wrong by lazide on Sunday October 08, 2023 @04:33PM (#37814177)
And we’ll see what ‘new’ polyamory looks like on that front in a generation or two as well eh?

Still too early to tell otherwise.