Who’s “we”? You say I’m off-base, yet this is one of the most upvoted comments I’ve ever written. Clearly a lot of people agree with me. At the end of the day, these are all just opinions and you seem to think yours is correct while others are wrong. A dangerous position to hold.
The main thing is to re-read one's comments after posting them and then edit out anything you notice that breaks the site guidelines. It's much easier to notice these things after posting them. That's my experience anyhow, and it's why https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html includes the phrase "edit out".
One tip, in case helpful: you can set 'delay' in your profile to give you time (up to 10 minutes) to look over and edit your posts before others see them.
Could you tell us which open source projects are yours so that we, as a community, can avoid contributing to them? We don't want to support this type of behaviour.