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Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by screye on Monday June 26, 2023 @02:23AM (#36476379)
People aren't having enough children. Every extra hurdle is going to reduce the number of people who end up parents.

> Potentially break the cycles of bad parenting

You can't break cycles of bad parenting, because they are 2nd order effects of cycles of trauma. And cycles of trauma have been a fundamental part of human civilization since we've existed. We absolutely should teach compassion, good parenting 101s and basic logistical upskilling as a part of high school for both men and women.

But, expecting humans as a whole to suddenly start acting with decency is not going to happen.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by oblio on Monday June 26, 2023 @02:56AM (#36476564)
> People aren't having enough children. Every extra hurdle is going to reduce the number of people who end up parents.

There's 8 billion of us.

Reducing the number of (unfit, unwilling, unplanned) parents is a net positive.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by screye on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:14AM (#36476665)
Birth rates are plummeting everywhere.

I'm with you. We can have fewer people on earth. But, that means 2-ish generations will have to do 2x-the-work per capita while receiving 0.5x the care when they retire. Our social welfare and economic systems are not built to deal with decreasing populations, let alone halving of population every 2 generations.

I am approaching 30. I very much feel like the generation that is going to pay for a comfortable retirement for boomers, never be able to afford real estate, pay huge amounts to raise kids and get nothing in return. Because, by the time I retire, the work-force will have halved. If even fewer people have kids, society will find itself staring at collapse.

The definition of 'good parenting' has changed rapidly over the last few decades and it is going to keep changing. As of now, it seems like an impossible bar to reach. It's better to expect just 'slightly less worse' from each generation, and let the momentum carry it forward.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by Xixi on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:43AM (#36476852)
Look at it from the bright side: you are likely born towards a local maximum in terms of human development. Too late not to notice the decline, but early enough that you aren't likely to suffer too much from it for the best part of your life.

Current forecasts put generalized famines, all around the globe, at somewhere between +2.5ºC and +3.0ºC of global warming. We are on track to cross +2.0ºC around 2050, at best 2055 [1]. So really, it's just around the corner.

At current trend, it's not lack of birth, but lack of food that is going to drive population decline...

[1] https://www.downtoearth.org.in/news/climate-change/world-lik...

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by BLKNSLVR on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:00AM (#36476979)
Not to whom you're replying, but as a parent this concerns me for their futures.

It mightn't be my problem, but fuck I'm a bad person if I just drop it on the floor for my kids to pick up - or slip over and die on.

That doesn't seem to be humanity's prevailing trait though...

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by csomar on Monday June 26, 2023 @06:26AM (#36477903)
The earth is getting greener. There are a ton of untapped opportunities in farming but it's mostly unprofitable and mismanaged. People don't care and will blame the government for rising food prices.

> Current forecasts put generalized famines, all around the globe

I am not aware of any such forecasts and call BS on that. If we are having a famine, it's because of a war or a conflict that disrupted our supply lines. Climate change effects are really minor (beyond having a bit of a hotter summer).

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by alphager on Monday June 26, 2023 @07:44AM (#36478449)
> Climate change effects are really minor (beyond having a bit of a hotter summer).

That's patently false. It goes way beyond hotter summers. We're already observing today the increased frequency of extreme weather events (droughs, floodings, hurricanes). Even not taking into account the other changes, just the extreme weather events will massively impact the US.

While I agree that the US will not suffer a famine (though a massive movement of farming activities), there will be global famine events that the richer countries will compensate by buying up all the market and letting poorer countries to suffer.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by BLKNSLVR on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:45AM (#36476866)
Interesting that we may get to be test subjects for:

What will be prioritised when there aren't enough workers for all the current positions? - necessities for everyone - luxuries for those who can afford exorbitant prices

It can be both, to some extent, but with any luxuries will come a sacrifice of necessities, and a sacrifice of necessities will increase the prices. The best of people will tend towards being paid more, which shallows the pool of talent for necessities, which reduces quality at the same time as increasing price.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by screye on Monday June 26, 2023 @12:42PM (#36482157)
> What will be prioritized when there aren't enough workers for all the current positions?

I'll give you the politically incorrect answer.

Until recently, a large population of old people oppressing a slighter smaller population of young people (by majoritarian voting patterns) meant violence.

Humans have eliminated the 3 main uncertainties that ensured some level of demand-supply elasticity : unprotected sex, starvation and violence.

So now, instead of society promptly reacting to a disgruntled workforce, we instead get slow but perpetual decline because the workforce cannot retaliate in any real manner. They can't vote out old people. They can't enforce violence. In any other world, bored-young-people would be having tons of unprotected sex and brute force replacing the old population. But, contraception allows people to engage in their most primal instinct (sex) without the resulting rise in work force.

Now, I am a 100% not suggesting that we need a return to older times. But, we need an awareness that the removal of these avenues means that history might not repeat itself and nature might not heal on its own.... because we have conquered nature.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by prawn on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:46AM (#36476874)
If there are fewer people, won't there be less competition for housing and thus affordability would improve somewhat? If you need to spend less on a mortgage or rent, you may not need to work as much, or a single income couple might be viable once more, etc. (Or perhaps this just means cheaper property can continue to accumulate in the hands of wealthier people.)
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by csomar on Monday June 26, 2023 @06:22AM (#36477872)
No. Japan is a good example of that. It'll just centralize the area more, draining the periphery and raising the prices in the center.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by raverbashing on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:48AM (#36476888)
> Our social welfare and economic systems are not built to deal with decreasing populations, let alone halving of population every 2 generations.

They better make it work then

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by jona-f on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:59AM (#36476971)
Most work is unnecessary, bureaucratic and consumerist bs. Still many people are unemployed. Automation is held back by unions who fight for their right to do even the crappiest work, like mining. Inhabitable land is overcrowded. Less people is definitely net positive. Surely the economy might take a hit, cause it requires steady growth, but while that is bullshit in its own, we could still have growing economy with declining workforce, everyone would have to get very wealthy then.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by bregma on Monday June 26, 2023 @07:04AM (#36478152)
> Birth rates are plummeting everywhere.

Birth rates are plummeting in many first-world countries but it's skyrocketing in most places.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by oblio on Monday June 26, 2023 @07:11AM (#36478200)
Nope. Sky rocketing would mean that the numbers were low previously and are increasing now. Birth rates are still high in a small number of countries but even there they're lower than they were in the 60s.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/3/34/Total_Fe...

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by protomolecule on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:22AM (#36477130)
If no one will have kids these 8 billion will go to zero in about 100 years.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by oblio on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:38AM (#36477236)
That assumes there are no fit and willing parents.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by protomolecule on Tuesday June 27, 2023 @03:31PM (#36497561)
Yes, sure. My point is that absolute numbers don't matter and the population can plummet faster than people usually imagine.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by prmoustache on Monday June 26, 2023 @06:32AM (#36477955)
You know it won't happen.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by BLKNSLVR on Monday June 26, 2023 @03:57AM (#36476955)
> People aren't having enough children.

By what metric? Economics?

Economics, ironically, is the reason I don't have more kids. My family is doing, what I would consider, "quite well", but we'd still be pretty fucked with one more mouth to feed, the need for a larger car and possibly larger house.

I truly don't know how people that aren't that far below us on the resources / income scale have any hope of comfortable retirement prior to actual death.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by staunton on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:26AM (#36477158)
> I truly don't know how people that aren't that far below us on the resources / income scale have any hope of comfortable retirement prior to actual death.

"Comfortable retirement" is a luxury of the recent past. It wasn't a concept for most of human history and will stop being one for most people fairly soon.

If anything, for most of human history, having someone to take care of you when you're old has been a primary incentive to have kids.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by tfourb on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:43AM (#36477270)
A formalized retirement age is a recent invention but human biology alone has always required people to transition through various stages in life. I think the idea of retirement = doing nothing is quite new when applied to broad sections of society. But going back millennia, older people would transition from often hard physical/dangerous occupations to tasks focused more on maintaining social networks, helping to raise kids, supervising, etc.

I think that societies should return to supporting this approach to life (but through valuing an individual's contribution, not sanctions). Growing older will always come with changes in one's abilities (not always to the worse) and personal priorities. This should be embraced and encouraged basically up to the point of death. I.e. my village has an organization called "Rentnerbande" (="gang of pensioners") where older guys help local schools, kindergartens and people with beautification and handicraft stuff for free.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by LocalH on Monday June 26, 2023 @08:29AM (#36478855)
Retirement isn't supposed to be about "doing nothing". It's about not having to work a job to be able to afford the lifestyle you have, as you reach elderly life. There are huge swaths of retirees who still "do things", and some of those things even bring money in! But the difference is, if one was able to prepare for their retirement, that money isn't needed to put food on the table and keep the lights on.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by tfourb on Monday June 26, 2023 @09:44AM (#36479588)
I know and agree, but in modern western societies there is no real expectation of or preparation for doing anything in retirement, least of all something that benefits society at large. Yes, some people transition and find fulfillment in something there do after retirement, but some also are scared and frustrated because they have tied their identity to their job. In my view, it should be the norm (which comes with corresponding support and encouragement) that people comprehend the last couple of decades of their life as simply an opportunity to follow their passions and support others follow theirs with less economic pressures.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by kortilla on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:21AM (#36477121)
By failing to maintain the population. The richer people get, the fewer children they have. This is the same in countries all over the world. Your intuition is wrong on this one.
Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by sunderw on Monday June 26, 2023 @06:41AM (#36478012)
And why should we maintain the population ? Have we reached the perfect amount of people on earth ?

We could be a lot less humans on earth, it would be amazing for the environment, and I think we'd be as happy.

The only downside I see is economic (in the sense that everything is built with the expectation of growth). But it is to me an economic problem, and not a reproduction problem.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by JumpinJack_Cash on Monday June 26, 2023 @09:31AM (#36479447)
> > And why should we maintain the population ? Have we reached the perfect amount of people on earth ?

Because when people are happy they fuck on impetuous and fucking on impetuous generates children (modulo vasectomy and morning after pill)

It’s not about the outcome , it’s about the happiness on the way there, whatever outcome it might be.

Also when people are happy they wind up perishing by fucking around in the real world due to excessive confidence doing dangerous activities such as drinking and driving, jetski accidents, drug overdoses etc

You have to substitute these people somehow

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by ZephyrBlu on Monday June 26, 2023 @05:30AM (#36477573)
It's interesting that when people talk about having another child there is almost always the implicit assumption of maintaining at least the same lifestyle.

I was quite amused that in your comment you explicitly talk about expanding your lifestyle to have another child: "the need for a larger car and possibly larger house".

Poor people have more children than well off people until you hit top >1% incomes. Economics is not the thing stopping people from having kids, reduction in lifestyle is.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by paganel on Monday June 26, 2023 @05:51AM (#36477679)
> Economics is not the thing stopping people from having kids, reduction in lifestyle is.

Technically you're somewhat correct, because it sucks to have kids when you know they'll be raised by an economically poorer you.

And as most of the people don't see themselves as economically stable given the socio-economic conditions that have been in place for the last 15-20 years, that means that many people give up having kids because of said economic reasons (so, you're also incorrect, because economics is indeed stopping people from having kids), saying something like this: "I'm already only scrapping by as it is, bringing a kid into the equation will only make things worse for me and my spouse and definitely for the kid".

Not saying that everyone thinks and acts like this, because otherwise no-one would have had children by now, but it's a strong part of the population I would say.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by itsoktocry on Monday June 26, 2023 @08:24AM (#36478805)
>And as most of the people don't see themselves as economically stable given the socio-economic conditions that have been in place for the last 15-20 years

But as the OP says, this is almost backwards. The poorest in America are continuing to have children; their lifestyle isn't encumbered by a family.

Meanwhile, it's the young professionals, who sometimes have a skewed view of what it means to be "poor", who aren't starting families because they don't want to give up aspects of their lifestyle. Again, not a judgment, just observing.

This is a cultural thing. My wife and I ended up with a child at a fairly advanced age. We moved to a rural area about 5 or 6 years ago. Now that our child is of the age to play sports and other activities, we are socializing with other parents. They are sometimes half our age, married with families in their early 20s. These people are what would generally be considered "lower-middle class". And yet most of them have everything they need. There's no expectation that you're going to be a globe-trotting nomad, or live in a 5000 sqft house here. Raising a family is a priority.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by paganel on Monday June 26, 2023 @09:12AM (#36479265)
> who sometimes have a skewed view of what it means to be "poor

I don't think is a skewed view when you don't own a house/apartment, and many of the young professionals from around the world, not only from America, are now exactly in that position.

Honestly glad that it worked out for you moving to the rural area, where I suppose housing is way cheaper, but that option is not on the cards for a lot of younger people out there.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by mrguyorama on Monday June 26, 2023 @04:24PM (#36485328)
>The poorest in America are continuing to have children; their lifestyle isn't encumbered by a family.

And those kids most often have all sorts of problems when they grow up. Sure, my poor as fuck mom could raise us, and technically keep some food in our mouths, but the stress of doing so while having an anxiety disorder that the back asswards rural community we lived in didn't even know existed until 2010 basically broke her. Thankfully we were predisposed to intelligence by genetics, and a strong family value of education, so the kids all "made it", by varying degrees.

Each and every one of us is in therapy, and on multiple medications. How much does that cost society over a lifetime? How much would it have cost society to just give my mom a little help to raise us instead? Helping poor families not drive themselves crazy struggling to do the basic things of being alive has a huge potential upside, and it's abhorrent that we don't do it because some people think they don't DESERVE help.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by ZephyrBlu on Monday June 26, 2023 @07:32PM (#36487240)
The problem with "only scraping by" is that a lot of people have very high baselines for "scraping by".

"I'm barely scraping by", says the person with an above average income, living in an expensive city, frequently going out, going on multiple vacations per year, buying luxury items, etc.

People who are actually scraping by do not talk about needing to buy a bigger house if they have more kids, because they literally cannot afford that.

https://twitter.com/kitten_beloved/status/166761594887723417...

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by itsoktocry on Monday June 26, 2023 @08:13AM (#36478694)
>My family is doing, what I would consider, "quite well", but we'd still be pretty fucked with one more mouth to feed, the need for a larger car and possibly larger house.

What do you consider "quite well"? Does your car have a backseat? Does your home have more than one bedroom? If so, you don't need larger of either.

Yes, there are some sacrifices to having a family. Nothing in life is free. The problem is that it sounds like you don't want to your lifestyle hindered by a child. That's fine, but saying you "can't" is untrue. People much poorer than you are doing it all around the world.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by 0xParlay on Monday June 26, 2023 @09:05AM (#36479206)
> The problem is that it sounds like you don't want to your lifestyle hindered by a child

But that's not really a problem. The world has plenty of children. If you visit the border of Mexico you can probably snag a handful. Given their state of poverty they won't even mind.

So to the original question. What does it mean for a birthrate to be "too low". Too low for what? Sustaining some level of GDP output? Propping up Wal-marts bottom line with fresh souls to work the checkout counter?

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by stared on Monday June 26, 2023 @06:31AM (#36477940)
> People aren't having enough children

People, who have enough resources (financial, educational) don't have much children. I don't think that this will affect this group.

People, who have no access to education or anticonception, have disproportionally more children. Many of them are unwanted. Some are irreversibly damage due to abusive susbtance intake.

Re:Ignoring Boys' Emotional Needs Fuels Public Health Risks by goodpoint on Monday June 26, 2023 @06:49AM (#36478053)
> People aren't having enough children

If anything it's the opposite.

> You can't break cycles of bad parenting

Because you said so?