I found the post you replied to very incongruous, because as I read it started with the idea that men are casually discriminated against (responding to the "men suck" thing) and then skewed into something that may be an issue but is completely in a different spirit (men defying stereotypes by being primary child carers) and then committed exactly often offence the original post was pointing out "toxic masculinity". It's almost like a weird simultaneous attempt to find victimhood while still toeing the "men bad" line.