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Re:The Never Married, a New Normal by ceejayoz on Sunday May 28, 2023 @10:57PM (#36110096)
So does an unhappy marriage.
Re:The Never Married, a New Normal by Dalewyn on Sunday May 28, 2023 @11:30PM (#36110335)
The true answer is that a dysfunctional marriage negatively affects any children period. If the would-be parents can't reasonably guarantee a happy household going forward, having children is the epitome of irresponsiblity.
Re:The Never Married, a New Normal by hiatus on Monday May 29, 2023 @11:20AM (#36114821)
> If the would-be parents can't reasonably guarantee a happy household going forward, having children is the epitome of irresponsiblity.

Who can do this? Who can possibly guarantee anything about the future, especially when it involves other people?

Re:The Never Married, a New Normal by Dalewyn on Monday May 29, 2023 @11:04PM (#36120700)
It should be reasonably possible to ascertain whether you and your spouse will have a pleasant or unpleasant future. If the latter, why the fuck (pun intended) would you have children?
Re:The Never Married, a New Normal by ceejayoz on Tuesday May 30, 2023 @01:55PM (#36128123)
Protracted job loss? Major illness? Death of a child? War?

There are a lot of variables that go into the success of a marriage that can't be predicted, especially over a 20+ year timeframe. The idea that you can reliably predict if someone'll be happy in their marriage decades later is... unsupported.