How to spend money on your friends without it looking like bribery

Re:How to spend money on your friends without it looking lik... by xapata on Sunday April 30, 2023 @12:45PM (#35764289)

Isn't the price the point? The question is whether the poorer of the two is comfortable with the expense. At many times in my life, I was the one "not hungry" when invited to a restaurant.

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Re:How to spend money on your friends without it looking lik... by khazhoux on Sunday April 30, 2023 @02:33PM (#35765302)

Fine, xapata! Yes, if you suddenly find yourself with a shitload of money, and you have friends who can't pay their bills every month, they have $0.00 in the bank, literally can't afford to ever eat out, and a $20 meal would be a grand expense and a momentous occasion for them... yes, go ahead and offer to pay for those friends every time.

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Re:How to spend money on your friends without it looking lik... by xapata on Monday May 01, 2023 @04:41PM (#35778845)

Thanks, I'm glad to have your approval.

If you're curious how I handle those friendships: I invite them to dinner at my house. Much as discussed in the article.

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