I'm honestly not trying to be a jerk, but it's really hard for me to understand why anyone would want to live like that.
The government there is just so... intrusive.
I lived in SoCal for six years in the 90s and absolutely loved it.
But now? I've lived all over the country, and experienced a lot of different state governments and local cultures.
I just don't think I could tolerate living in a state with that much regulation.
Does it ever bother you?
It's definitely gotten worse to live in these days (homeless, dumb politicians, rent, traffic, etc) but it's something I would put up with because it's truly a great location. I really wish someday someone competent would come to office there, but alas.
Not saying California is perfect, absolutely not. A shithole some might say, but there's so much Cali offers that you can't get anywhere else.
source: I'm from California, grew up SoCal, went to uni in NorCal. Went and seen it all. Unfortunately now I live in Seattle due to job reasons.
California's banning fuel powered generators in 2028 so do it while you can.