The reason why there's no physical hard disconnect available in settings comes back to what I said earlier, cost and convenience from the manufactures' perspective.
They don't want to spend 2 cents on some mosfets for HW disconnects, and they don't want to nag the user every time they plug in the phone to charge as that would hurt the UX. They want the device to sync up automagically to whatever device you're pugging it into. That's what USB was designed for, convenience.
Plus, if you nag the user every single time they plug in the USB with a security prompt, they will just get desensitized and instinctively click 'YES' all the time.
This whole thread is bizarre. A whole lot of fretting over an attack that nobody bothered to describe.
Which keystrokes are you talking about and on which OS does that attack work? I can't think of anything that would work on my iPhone.