All well and good for you, and I don't fault you for making that decision for yourself. OP's stated requirement was...
>not an always-connected surveillance device
... which without opting into the service, the Leaf is not.
Happy to have OP clarify for themselves, though.
I'm betting the car always connects, it's just whether or not you enable any benefits of the connection.
Anyone with actual knowledge about cars with such devices willing to chime in?
Edit: consider how the car knows whether or not you're paying for any service.
Other systems... I can say my Maverick lets you select whether to have vehicle location data shared or not, but TBH I don't trust opt-outs. [0] I've also run into the issue on my said car, where my opt-outs got de-opted when the dealer runs updates.
[0] - Also as a side note, I've had at least one loan note in the past (from a larger bank) where they stated a tracking device may be placed in the vehicle. Not sure whether they sell that data.
So it has the capability to connect? No thanks. I don't think that's the distinction OP was trying to make.