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Re:Most young men are single. Most young women are not by readthenotes1 on Wednesday February 22, 2023 @11:05AM (#34897706)
Isn't this what is reported by Tinder? That women get selected all the time but only the most attractive men get selected by women
Re:Most young men are single. Most young women are not by schrijver on Wednesday February 22, 2023 @11:39AM (#34898247)
Tinder wouldn’t report that, since it’s not very encouraging for their customers. The source most linked seems to be someone on Medium who interviewed people: https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-g...

Dating apps don’t make their data available to scientists, that would be nice though!

For sure live is more easy for hot people, off or on dating apps. It’s true in bars and clubs too. In settings where people have more of a time to get to know each other it probably matters less, even if it always plays a role. It’s just that, as long as society’s concept of a relationship is still two people together, and not one person with a harem, these attractive people at the top of the pyramid will end up being picky too.

Re:Most young men are single. Most young women are not by medvezhenok on Wednesday February 22, 2023 @02:46PM (#34901550)
Another interesting thing to observe is whether the premium for being attractive has increased in general because of the "shrinking of the world" effect via internet (i.e. attractive people have more opportunities now to be models, to work in branding, start an onlyfans and make money). Basically - whether it's easier now to "monetize" your good looks.

If that is the case, attractiveness has actually become a better proxy for social status/success than it used to be. I don't have data to back this up - intuitively it makes sense to me, but I hope someone out there is studying the effect.

Re:Most young men are single. Most young women are not by fidgewidge on Wednesday February 22, 2023 @04:48PM (#34903391)
> Dating apps don’t make their data available to scientists, that would be nice though!

Actually OKCupid did do that at some point, well, it was their own employees but they did extensive and very honest data analysis. After the company was sold those blog posts were erased, of course.

Re:Most young men are single. Most young women are not by red-iron-pine on Thursday February 23, 2023 @04:59PM (#34917167)
they're still in the internet in a few places if you know where to look, i.e. archive.com