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Re:Hundreds of changes made to latest editions of Roald Dahl... by dang on Sunday February 19, 2023 @01:11AM (#34854991)
Please don't cross into personal attack.
Re:Hundreds of changes made to latest editions of Roald Dahl... by SaltyGoodness on Sunday February 19, 2023 @05:30AM (#34856267)
I didn't.

What is your relationship to tptacek? Every time I see him winding people up, you're there behind him, threatening anyone who stands up.

Re:Hundreds of changes made to latest editions of Roald Dahl... by DonHopkins on Sunday February 19, 2023 @06:50AM (#34856788)
I'd hardly call dang threatening, unless you're threatened by him politely asking you not to break the rules. And you were. If you find being politely asked to follow the rules threatening, you can politely leave.
Re:Hundreds of changes made to latest editions of Roald Dahl... by dang on Sunday February 19, 2023 @02:55PM (#34861172)
"Come on guy" and "people have been pointing it out to you for hours now" are rude and personal. Please make your substantive points without swipes. This is in the site guidelines: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html.

I didn't see personal attacks from tptacek. Some of his comments in this thread were edgier than I would like but I didn't see any that broke the site guidelines badly enough to warrant a scolding the way your comment did. Based on what I saw, this isn't a borderline call and (in case you're worried about this) it has nothing to do with disagreeing with you—just look at my posts on the actual topic.

> Every time I see him winding people up, you're there behind him, threatening anyone who stands up

The active ingredient there is "I see". What people see, and fail to see, is basically determined by their passions on a subject. If all these years of moderation have taught me one thing, it's that.

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Re:Hundreds of changes made to latest editions of Roald Dahl... by dang on Monday February 20, 2023 @02:23AM (#34865866)
Yes, what you posted counts as rude and personal by local standards and we ban accounts that do that repeatedly, so please don't do it again.

Re "twisting of people's comments" - that's your interpretation based on your priors. People make these judgments all the time—in fact they come up in nearly every argument as soon as emotions get activated. You're overestimating what moderation can do if you think we should impose our own such interpretations. And they wouldn't agree with your interpretations in any case (how could they?) so you wouldn't get what you wanted even if we did. No one would! In fact it would amplify the complaints about moderation by many orders of magnitude.

If someone is wrong or you think they are, the helpful thing to do is respectfully provide correct information. If you can't or don't want to do that, please just chalk it up to someone being wrong on the internet and walk away. The one who stops posting first in tit-for-tat exchanges is the one who wins anyway.

Also, HN conversations are basically never good once people start arguing about what each other is really saying, so when things take that turn, it's a sign that it's time to stop.