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Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by jvanderbot on Friday January 20, 2023 @11:56AM (#34455971)
Yep -- I graduated grad school at 34 and got a series of amazing jobs with incredible people over the last 8 years. I was a complete pile of poop until 25, and slowly crawled out of my bad habits from 25-30, caught some ambition at 30, managed to turn it into an advanced degree by 34. Hell, I dropped out of high school and, 5 years later, still managed to fail my first year of undergrad.

In hindsight, it was a natural "1% better" progression. I stopped hanging out with bad folks, got out of a junk relationship, got into a good relationship with someone who encouraged me and was more conscientious than I was, started exercising, meditating, studying, taking measured risks, practicing, and keeping track of my accomplishments so I had good talking points when pushing into a new opportunity. I also have to acknowledge the "home court advantage", because I stuck near my family and friends until I moved to the west coast for my first big job after graduation.

Believe me, I still feel like I wasted the years from age 16 to age 25, but I no longer feel like I've wasted my entire life.

Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by owlglass on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:21PM (#34456379)
Lived the same "pile of poop" lifestyle 20-23, slowly crawling out of it with many of the same techniques you mention. I'm glad to see things have looked up for you.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by jxramos on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:05PM (#34456137)
I like that age range bounded failure recognition. I can relate, I call them the wasted years of my life.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by dwmbt on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:28PM (#34457476)
even jesus had his lost years.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by javajosh on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:04PM (#34457086)
As an aside, the traditional term for being a pile of poop is "living a dissipated life".
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by icebergonfire on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:09PM (#34457152)
Adding to the polite pile of plus ones, I wasted my 20s in directionless ways. I spent 28-30 ramping up into tech and managed to kickstart my career began two months before I turned 30.

> I still feel like I wasted the years from age 16 to age 25, but I no longer feel like I've wasted my entire life

I shall steal this turn of phrase, can relate so much.

To the fine OP: success is not guaranteed but I've met so many people that have pivoted their entire careers and lives later than you'd think. If you have the drive and privilege to give it a real try, you have a chance to join the ranks.

If you don't... you won't.

Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by throwaway9191aa on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:17PM (#34457287)
More plus one :) The secret is, once all us wayward youths find each other, we are more interesting than the typical advanced high school => ivy league => enterprise developer. I work with so many people who have never had a job outside of software development. It is all about work, except for that time they brewed their own beer for a couple months.

Kinda judgemental I know. Just know that you should never be afraid to re-invent yourself. There are more of us out there! Find us!

Re:Ask HN: Has anyone successfully started their career over... by sibeliuss on Friday January 20, 2023 @04:41PM (#34460354)
I can very much relate to this! Whole 20's were a blur with lots of bad habits. Life definitely began ~30-32, and also met someone very supportive.

The 30's are very young!