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Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @11:30AM (#34455462)
A friend recently introduced me to this quote, and even though it generalises a little[1], I think it ring true:

> Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.

I think we're entering that last cycle again, where people are inventing trivial hardships for themselves, because media teaches them that only a life with some type of adversity is worth living.

In other words, everyone is desperate to be a protagonist in what is an extremely comfortable world, so they invent villains. Then they post about their great protagonism on social media. In part, I think, this is due to the neurosis created by the fakeness of social media.

Also, since all achievements on social media are pixel-thin, it is also turning people into equally shallow reprobates.

The recent trend of unironically calling people "NPCs" and "bots" just reinforces these beliefs, IMO.

[1]: I also find it a bit funny we have to put these types of disclaimers everywhere, since everyone goes out of their way to be offended over trivialities

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by 1659447091 on Friday January 20, 2023 @11:43AM (#34455711)
If we are at the "Weak men create hard times", then we are soon at the "hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men". Atleast we have that to look forward to. Seems we bring it on ourselves
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by snapcaster on Friday January 20, 2023 @11:47AM (#34455785)
That quote always bothered me because I don't think it's accurate on either a personal or societal level. It's not a good model for viewing the world. It's one of those things that rings true but when you actually think about it it's hard to find it actually mapping to reality or having any predictive power
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by floren on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:13PM (#34456282)
Right, I've never heard somebody quote it and declare that we're currently in the hard times. Its only purpose is to let other people know that you consider them unwise and soon they'll be sorry.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:38PM (#34456632)
That's the social media mindset I was talking about!
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by RestlessMind on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:15PM (#34456303)
What?? I actually think it maps pretty well to the reality. I have seen it at a personal level in my social circle and at a broad level of civilizations.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by jodrellblank on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:48PM (#34456830)
I was going to post the same complaint as the parent comment; for example:

"Hard times create strong men" - maybe, but starvation doesn't make you strong. Being dead from disease doesn't make you strong. Rising to adversity might make some people stronger, but it will harm others who survive but are damaged. It could be that the already-strong people rise to adversity and the weak get crushed by it, Darwinianly? Or that the weak endure through hard times as much as anyone because hard times are generally about health food or money and even 'weak' beggers can get enough of those to survive. Today's homeless are generally enduring lack of food, poor health, low money, and nobody considers them being made 'strong' by it, they're harmed by it.

"strong men create good times" - warriors are strong, barbarian raiders were strong, unpleasant bosses who abuse their workforce and reign by terror are strong, those are horrible times. Is there a connection between strong people and good times? What about average people who are neither weak nor strong, working in concert? What about people who are generally considered weak, but are thinking long term planting the trees that will shade tomorrow, community building, etc?

"good times create weak men" - do they? Do they necessarily? Why is this framing "good" as "bad"? Wouldn't going to the gym regularly and getting stronger be "good times" for someone? Wouldn't working the family farm hard, being physically strong and providing for your family, be good times and not making you weak? Is it luxury which makes people weak - previous point, do strong people create luxury specifically?

"weak men create hard times" - do they? Plenty of strong people (dictators, for example) have created hard times for millions. Plenty of weak people have had no impact on the times at all. Isn't the history of progress littered with people who were "a weak and sickly child" who spent their lives hiding indoors, thinking about math, died young, and changed the world - were they making hard times?

It's connected to the 'one generation makes family wealth by working hard, next generation preserves it but can't build it, next generation spends it'. In that, the hard times are where you have no money and have to work. The good times are where you have money and no work. The next hard times are where you lose the money and have to work again. But then, getting back into work and earning money is a homeless unemployed person's good times, life on the up.

At the 'level of civilizations' it's far too vague to say the fall of Rome was caused by "weak men" or that the rise of Rome was caused by "hard times".

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by dqpb on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:10PM (#34457165)
In this context, I think strong means competent.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:46PM (#34457758)
I interpreted is as a strong character (or mind); one that's not easily shaken (mentally) and stable.

I would certainly include competence as contributing to a strong character

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by lanstin on Friday January 20, 2023 @08:19PM (#34462708)
Like Godel and Turing, right?
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by marcosdumay on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:54PM (#34457892)
And then you look again at the GP, and see that the only reasonable interpretation of "strong" that phrase can have has no relation at all with competence.

Or worse, because bad times create broken people. And while broken people can stand adversity, they are much less able to create something non-broken.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:59PM (#34457981)
Bad doesn't have to mean PTSD-inducing "walking dead" scenarios…

Also, whether hardships makes or breaks you depends largely on your outlook and coping skills (this comes from someone who's had CPTSD and had to stop suicidal idealisation and learn coping skills in my late 20s).

All skills diminish, if unused. Having too easy times means there's less need to "cope"

It's very likely most millennials have poor coping skills due to the predominantly emotionally neglectful parenting styles the previous generation

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by marcosdumay on Friday January 20, 2023 @03:34PM (#34459505)
> Bad doesn't have to mean PTSD-inducing "walking dead" scenarios…

When people say that phrase today, "bad" literally means WWII.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by autoexec on Friday January 20, 2023 @09:17PM (#34463156)
> Bad doesn't have to mean PTSD-inducing "walking dead" scenarios…

I think that in apocalyptically bad times good people (the "weak") get taken advantage of by ruthless assholes (the "strong") who do better when they act like selfish monsters, but those kinds of people just prolong the bad times. The "strong" just endlessly fight amongst themselves while oppressing everyone else. "Might makes right" doesn't result in favorable outcomes.

Good times allow (and insist) that folks behave like a civilized people who look out for each other and that not only helps promote future good times and advancement but also creates an environment where genuinely vulnerable people who couldn't survive the bad times can thrive and contribute. When people are fighting for survival they don't have time to invent new cool things and learn about how the universe works.

I guess after a while the good times allow some of us to get annoyed by all the good people who keep telling everyone we have to be nice to others and to look around at all the vulnerable people who couldn't survive without our support and wonder if we'd just be better off without them, but I can't imagine that working out better in the long term.

Perhaps things play out somewhat the same in less than apocalyptically bad times too.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by lanstin on Friday January 20, 2023 @08:16PM (#34462672)
And extremely weak people can be sublimely competent. weird but true. You really just cannot rank people on a linear ordering.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by carlosjobim on Friday January 20, 2023 @04:55PM (#34460537)
Next please analyze the saying "Anything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger" ;)
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by snapcaster on Monday January 23, 2023 @08:21AM (#34488401)
Thank you, this is what I was wanting to comment but was too lazy to type it out. This is what I meant, not that it's strictly false but just that it requires so many clarifications/exceptions/etc. it's not a useful model anymore
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by johnchristopher on Friday January 20, 2023 @11:52AM (#34455879)
> The recent trend of unironically calling people "NPCs" and "bots" just reinforces these beliefs, IMO.

I missed that one, though know that I read it I realized there's a lot of bot calling going-on on an FPS server I regularly visit.

By the way, is this site done with calling regular people "normies" ?

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @12:39PM (#34456658)
I think calling people bots in FPS games was always a thing. It's when people have poor pathing, or make seemingly nonsensical decisions. I meant more in real life
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by snozolli on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:12PM (#34457193)
I think we're entering that last cycle again, where people are inventing trivial hardships for themselves, because media teaches them that only a life with some type of adversity is worth living.

I don't think that's even remotely what the quote means. You seem to be taking it as "weak men make up hardships" as opposed to "weakness leads to a broken down system and future suffering for society".

For example, one might say that weakness in facing climate change will lead to hardship in the future. Another example would be that weakness in facing fascism allows it to rise and wreak havoc on society. Coincidentally, that quote is super popular among fascist-leaning types.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:34PM (#34457568)
I meant both of those things. Have you looked at society recently? The former is currently acting as a catalyst for the latter.

And speaking of fascism, it's unfortunately getting worse again

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by lanstin on Friday January 20, 2023 @08:28PM (#34462775)
You may wish to read some books by people who have lived under fascist regimes. It is a bit more intense than being criticized by busy bodies.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @09:04PM (#34463044)
We aren't talking about regimes, though… Why move the discussion?
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by lanstin on Saturday January 21, 2023 @02:27PM (#34469424)
If it isn’t trying to take over the government and replace a decadent democracy with the Old True Values it isn’t really fascism.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Saturday January 21, 2023 @08:12PM (#34472967)
Right, I've maybe misspoken then. Sorry about that. I think I meant traits that I commonly associated with fascism (bigotry, opression, discrimination, etc).

In any case, I don't know what to call it, but the resemblance to witch trials, heresy (and maybe fascism? I'm unsure now) is just uncanny.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by lanstin on Sunday January 22, 2023 @03:10PM (#34481711)
Not sure any large human society has been free of the ills of bigotry, oppression and discrimination, tho, century by century, we keep shifting things for the slightly better.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by rrrrrrrrrrrryan on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:26PM (#34457439)
For anyone who doesn't know the context: This quote is literal fascist rhetoric to promote machismo and contempt for the weak.

It might resonate the first time you hear it (most good propaganda does), but if you contemplate it for more than 10 seconds and you'll realize it's obviously untrue.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:42PM (#34457684)
Why does it have to be interpreted as fascist rhetoric? What propaganda does it embed? Why does everything have to revolve around hatred?

Also, you don't have to be macho or physically strong to be strong. That just seems like your own bias leaking into the discussion.

That it might promote contempt for weakness might be true, though, and it didn't cross my mind. I don't like that it does that. At the same time I don't think weakness should be glorified either. Ideally, weak people should be helped to develop their own strong self.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by guano___ on Friday January 20, 2023 @02:22PM (#34458349)
I'm not sure about fascism, but there's a lot of historical context to the quote.

Bret Devereaux has a series of posts where he delves into the history of the idea behind the meme - https://acoup.blog/2020/01/17/collections-the-fremen-mirage-...

It's a thoroughly interesting debunking, and in part IIIb, he talks about how the trope was used to promote racial purity and superiority.

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by spoiler on Saturday January 21, 2023 @08:41PM (#34473176)
Thank you for posting that! I've not read it yet. It seems like an interesting read (I love esoteric trivia like this!). I started it but realised it's much longer than I am prepared for this late at night. So, I'll try to read it over the coming days.

I don't know if it improves later, but they seem to only consider physical prowess as a form of strength. I generally interpreted this as strength of mind.

Also, I've taken the phrase less literally than they did. Man to me implied "human" (ie the same as man kind) because these quotes are usually designed to be succinct and memorable. They seem to think it's exclusive to human males.

But I've not read it in full yet, so we'll see when I finish it

Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by carlosjobim on Friday January 20, 2023 @05:11PM (#34460759)
You're interacting on an open forum with people from all over the world, who couldn't care less what ideas are considered permitted or not permitted according to your local party line.
Re:Ask HN: Where Are All the Parties? by bitsnbytes on Friday January 20, 2023 @01:30PM (#34457497)
Excellent post and spot on.