Do you know what website you’re on and the type of people that frequent it?

Have you ever actually read an assortment of the things Paul Graham has written?

It’s deeply unsettling how disgusting & embarrassing of a statement this is from you - I now better understand the viewpoint of a popular Trans tinkerer that often makes the front page (from others linking to their work) of HN, who subsequently goes “fuck HN, I hate HN” every time.

Gross.

But she is literally living the insane stereotype that gives LGBTQ individuals a bad name; an "attention whore" to use the customary Internet parlance.

You are way out of line here, you don't get to decide how other people present themselves online and tying their persona to their gender or sexual identity is an outright stereotype/slur.