I have personal experience with refugees from Central America and Mexico. I can assure you, many are fleeing violence.
Again, dismissing or diminishing someone's accomplishments because you accuse them of being privileged without knowing the first thing about them violates all of the following:
- Be kind. Don't be snarky. Have curious conversation; don't cross-examine. Please don't fulminate. Please don't sneer, including at the rest of the community. Edit out swipes.
- Please don't post shallow dismissals, especially of other people's work. A good critical comment teaches us something.
- Please don't pick the most provocative thing in an article or post to complain about in the thread. Find something interesting to respond to instead.
So, go ahead and flag this too, because you know as well as I do that the rules have nothing to do with what they say, and everything to do with who is applying them.
My point is that the OPs “model” is a strategy for a limited population and not very generalizable. Within those caveats, I have no issue with their suggestion.
You choose here to focus on the fact that some people have more angles available to them than others. You call them privilege and believe them to be unjust. If you do that too much, you'll defeat yourself and destroy your own agency.
Maybe you're right, maybe they are unjust, I do have opinions on that sort of thing, I also think the best places to indulge those opinions are at the ballot box and at my desk writing checks to nonprofits. I mean I do screw this up and focus my time/energy/attention on them at inappropriate times. But I know it is a screw-up when I do it. No one is serving the greater good by wasting time.
He laid his heart and mind out for our benefit, and you rewarded it by attempting to bully him. Don't tell me I'm being uncivil.
You're right that I'm not adding to his discourse. I'm just trying to hush the people who are attempting to bully him.
What you do with the cards in hand is what matters. Other paths lead to insanity.
I understand and agree with your overall point, but the fact that this an option underpins a certain amount of privilege.