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Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by satvikpendem on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @05:49PM (#33725517)
There are stories of adult children deprogramming their parents / in-laws by blocking these sites via their routers [0], and within a few weeks they're able to see their parents' views and demeanor visibly change for the positive [1].

The post from BestOfRedditorUpdates [1] for example shows the progression, basically the same as the 5 stages of grief, or withdrawal from a drug habit. First they get angry, then they try to find ways around it, then they accept that they can't and start doing something else.

The truth is most people don't really go to these sites out of choice, they do it out of habit. If you can alter the habit, you can stop them from consuming such content. It's no different than stopping any other habit, like (if you're a smoker or alcoholic) not going to places where people smoke for example.

You can also replace the habit with something else; like smokers chewing nicotine gum instead of smoking, or like those trying to lose weight going for a walk instead of sitting at home and cracking open a cold one after a long day of work, this person's aunt replaced it with BTS [2].

[0] https://old.reddit.com/r/HermanCainAward/comments/vb3ddu/rhe...

[1] https://old.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yz7y...

[2] https://old.reddit.com/r/QAnonCasualties/comments/sis22t/my_...

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by BolexNOLA on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @06:12PM (#33725719)
I’ve been tempted to do this but it feels…wrong. Like bordering on gaslighting/taking someone’s phone away without their consent. It makes me feel like a bully.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by satvikpendem on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @06:17PM (#33725758)
Sure, but is that better or worse than your parents becoming cult-like and being harmed psychologically? Propaganda is a real thing, these websites and TV channels spend a lot of time and money trying to manipulate their users, I don't think it's morally wrong to fight back against that.

It's the same as what many HNers say about TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, etc, except it's now applied to those that are older who don't necessarily use those platforms but instead use others. If one doesn't like the former, they also should not logically like the latter either, they're two sides of the same coin.

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by lupire on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @06:47PM (#33726024)
If they don't care enough to undo what you did, is it really hurting them?

Would you say the same if they were shooting heroin?

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by BolexNOLA on Monday November 28, 2022 @06:35PM (#33781455)
> If they don't care enough to undo what you did, is it really hurting them?

I’m not really sure ignorance of (to?) a solution makes this suddenly a morally justifiable action.

I don’t know how to change a tire. I’d still be justifiably upset if someone just removed one while I was at dinner lol

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by satvikpendem on Tuesday November 29, 2022 @06:50PM (#33795033)
Consider another example, if you were out drinking and someone took your keys and refused to give them back so you could drive home while intoxicated, I'd consider that morally justifiable.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by treewalking on Tuesday November 29, 2022 @09:35PM (#33796275)
While there’s perhaps a “clear and present danger” distinction, I think this analogy is a good one because we are talking about similar interventions: nonviolent, easily overcome. No one’s gonna die from taking a cab home or missing out on the latest conspiracy theory.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by BolexNOLA on Thursday December 08, 2022 @06:09PM (#33915070)
No one is going to die if I take their phone away from them once a day and monitor everybody who calls and texts them. I don’t think that’s really a good bar.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by BolexNOLA on Monday December 05, 2022 @07:40PM (#33874182)
That’s a little different as I am under the influence of a known, measurable substance with known, measurable impairments it induces. I basically can’t exercise ANY judgment. Not just driving.

Yes I understand that someone indoctrinated/obsessed with conspiracy theories can quite literally not be able to get out of that orbit without external intervention, but it’s harder to quantify and it’s harder to draw the line on where and when it’s appropriate to declare someone unfit to set their own media consumption habits.

We’d also have to clearly define what does and doesn’t contribute to the problem, which would vary from person to person. That is definitely not a straightforward delineation. Especially when the person in question doesn’t agree at all.

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by Teever on Thursday November 24, 2022 @07:31AM (#33730568)
You can think of it as an application of the golden rule.

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

Would you want someone to do this for you if they found you in a similar situation?

If so, then you know what you need to do.

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by BolexNOLA on Monday November 28, 2022 @06:33PM (#33781441)
> Would you want someone to do this for you if they found you in a similar situation?

I mean this assumes I’m absolutely right AND it’s my right to unilaterally cut off my family from certain media without their consent. I feel like in the end I’m correct but not in the right.

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by thomastjeffery on Wednesday November 30, 2022 @12:13AM (#33797235)
The big thing is not to cut them off - that's likely part of it - but to replace the problematic habit.

Propaganda thrives on engagement. Engagement must be replaced with something equally stimulating.

Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by BolexNOLA on Monday December 05, 2022 @07:36PM (#33874152)
But I am cutting them off. The content is blocked. I am denying them access.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by judge2020 on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @06:00PM (#33725620)
Should also put on Fox News whenever possible, maybe set their browser home to it.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by feet on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @06:37PM (#33725929)
You want to make the situation worse? Might as well broadcast Tucker Carlson into her headphones while she sleeps
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by refurb on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @08:20PM (#33726757)
You'd have to block mainstream media too if you want to avoid disinformation.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by satvikpendem on Thursday November 24, 2022 @12:34AM (#33728072)
Perhaps we should all decrease our news consumption. I stopped years ago and it's been a boon to my mental health.
Re:What if we talked about over-60s’ screen time as we talk ... by feet on Thursday November 24, 2022 @07:39AM (#33730631)
Same here, it's basically all fear porn no matter which you consume

PBS newshour was actually pretty decent when I did watch it though