For the past years tech bros felt like this gives them a free ticket to negatively obsess about her, and unload their hate on females on her for bonding.
That is well-studied primate behavior which you can read up. Destroying the confidence and perceived self-value of the available wombs assures that they don’t leave their tribe. They are also more likely to mate with low value males (instead of focusing on high status only) if they don’t see value in themselves.
A female Elon Musk is unthinkable at the current human state, unless we remove the ancient primate behavior from the pool.
Consider the case of Hillary Clinton, who by textbook definition mishandled classified documents, which other people have been jailed for. She was not even referred for prosecution because of her widespread connections and political machinery.
There's numerous other examples of connected people getting light or no sentences. Jussie Smollett is another one.
I think these two cases are sort of parallels: people assumed that someone was a genius to such an extent that they disregarded any signs of fraud and sought little proof of the assertions being made.