She is an attractive public women in a male domain that made a big mistake. Male startup founders have indeed done mistakes on equal or worse level.

For the past years tech bros felt like this gives them a free ticket to negatively obsess about her, and unload their hate on females on her for bonding.

That is well-studied primate behavior which you can read up. Destroying the confidence and perceived self-value of the available wombs assures that they don’t leave their tribe. They are also more likely to mate with low value males (instead of focusing on high status only) if they don’t see value in themselves.

A female Elon Musk is unthinkable at the current human state, unless we remove the ancient primate behavior from the pool.