Re:Is this the end of social networking?
by s1artibartfast on Thursday August 11, 2022 @07:44PM
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Yeah, it seems like people are doubling down on a losing strategy. The real solution is usually involves going outside your front door and meet people. The same is true with dating.
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> The same is true with dating
Over the last 25 years, all but one of the people I've dated, have been people I met online, including the mother of my son. Most of them have been people who I'd never have crossed paths with if it wasn't for meeting them online.
Under no circumstance do I want to go back to the horror of relying on meeting people offline, without being able to quickly filter out people I'm not compatible with first.
Re:Is this the end of social networking?
by intrasight on Monday August 15, 2022 @02:27PM
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It's the aggressive filtering that has caused online dating to fail
Re:Is this the end of social networking?
by bombcar on Thursday August 11, 2022 @10:29PM
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And meeting people unlike yourself in at least some ways - social media is designed to help you find identical clones of yourself.
Re:Is this the end of social networking?
by s1artibartfast on Thursday August 11, 2022 @11:10PM
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I don't think most people actually get to know like minded individuals on social media. They just flock together on specific topics and don't associate where they disagree. When you meet people in the real world, chances are you are unlike in some ways by default. People just don't express their differences in superficial context. You don't find the differences unless you ask and listen. At least that's been my experience meeting people.