I think in my whole professional career I've experienced a colleague being annoyingly "woke" literally once – and even then, it was someone talking about a view that I thought was silly, rather than any kind of demand.

Conversely, the number of times I've sat through people losing their shit about some trivial perceived "wokery" is way higher. YMMV.

Best policy is to hate everyone equally, right?

I used to agree. Now I'm not so sure. :-)