This is an enormously under-appreciated perspective here, thanks for pointing it out. What appears to be a foolish luddite is often someone with a thoughtful, long-term perspective based on hard-won experience.
Chesterton's Fence, yet again.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._K._Chesterton#Chesterton's_...
It's rare but I have had someone ask to use my phone and I let them without any question
You'll want at least a bicycle in rural Europe, but you don't normally need a whole lot more.
2 hours to bus to work or 15 minutes to drive.
I'm in Victoria and don't need a car (have one, though).
More to the point, most of those areas outside of Toronto and Montreal have middling-to-no usable public transport. For example, I was recently passing by Kingston, ON, which has buses in some parts of the city but they reach a fraction of the population in the Kingston metro area. The same goes for much of the Windsor-London corridor. The qualification I stated was "urban areas that don't require cars," not any urban area.
[1] https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.URB.TOTL.IN.ZS?locat...
See also: the automobile, at least as experienced in the US and similar countries.
[EDIT] and in both cases, the problem is the effect the new thing had on the environment around it. When tech- and progress-focused people can't figure out why some cultures/countries have "anti-progress" laws (France's protection of book stores, for instance), well, this is often part of why they do that.