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Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by rchaud on Friday May 06, 2022 @06:58PM (#31290417)
Much like making new friends past university, therapists are a crapshoot. Some simply aren't a good fit or have poor sofa-side manner or fail to develop a sense of trust.

If the therapy is part of an employer funded benefit, you also only get a limited number of sessions, and only with the employer-approved provider.

Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by eckza on Friday May 06, 2022 @07:22PM (#31290572)
Plug for Lacanian psychotherapy.

Lacanians are focused, disciplined, and smart. There aren't many of them, either.

Dig around, read a little about Jacques Lacan; if it piques your interest, give it a shot.

Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by spazmoth on Friday May 06, 2022 @07:27PM (#31290607)
Have you seen a Lacanian analyst yourself? If so—what are the sessions like?
Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by westoncb on Friday May 06, 2022 @09:51PM (#31291476)
Interesting. Though I've got very little interest in Lacan's work itself, I could see this being a pretty good filter for finding smart/disciplined therapists who are able to address more... abstract concerns (then again, maybe it's better for some of us to be forced out of abstract territory for therapy).
Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by bluefirebrand on Friday May 06, 2022 @07:14PM (#31290515)
Also, your employer funded therapist will likely have a specific mandate to basically help you get back to work, meaning no longterm solutions or help, only bandaids.
Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by chrisdave on Friday May 06, 2022 @07:26PM (#31290602)
Maybe I'm lucky, I work for $LARGE_CORP_WITH_GOOD_BENEFITS and Aetna covers a non-tiny number of independent mental health practices with a small copay per session. Are there many companies with therapists on the payroll? I can't imagine feeling comfortable in that setting.
Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by mypalmike on Friday May 06, 2022 @07:36PM (#31290660)
Do you know of examples where this was the case? I've never heard of therapists having any such mandates.
Re:Why do you waste so much time on the internet? by kortilla on Friday May 06, 2022 @11:18PM (#31291875)
That’s not how that works. The employers don’t directly employ therapists.