A group tennis class or a soccer team or ultimate frisbee could be more useful.
BJJ (and other martial arts) can also be good for developing social connections. You spar with a variety of people, and have the time before and after class to actually speak with them. You may have to hunt around for a good gym with a more positive community (I've had the pleasure of finding one, and the displeasure of being at one with people who took themselves too seriously), but it's pleasant.
But it's always better when the exercise itself is semi-social, not a solo activity. Cycling groups can work well or meeting people, but cycling on its own doesn't really help. Same with running and swimming.
Agreed. Much improved suggestion.
Re:Ask HN: I'm So Lonely
by potta_coffee on Monday March 14, 2022 @02:16PM
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It depends on the type of gym. I started Jiu Jitsu and I found the culture to be really friendly (mostly - there are obviously some people who are not friendly). If you're just lifting at Planet Fitness you're obviously not going to meet new friends. Any place that fills a smaller niche and has it's own culture is somewhere you can meet people though - martial arts, Crossfit, etc. Just pick a niche with a culture that you vibe with and dive in.
I know this is anecdata but for me going to the gym is great but is an antithesis of a place when you make new relationships. I was going to a gym and a swimming pool for a couple of years and I met zero new people - practically no any discussions except an occasional "Hi!".