Of course, no post gratifies everyone's curiosity—the front page is an amalgam of a lot of people's different tastes. If this topic isn't to yours, there are plenty of others to look at. If you'd please do that instead and refrain from posting unsubstantive comments, we'd appreciate it.
I realize different people would make borderline calls differently. I'm making that call on this one; if you disagree, fair enough. But on a level of the principle involved, there's no change here.
i personally find death notices (and especially the in-/out-moderation of them) to carry more cultural propaganda than genuine curiosity, so i'd be totally fine with the latter approach.
They could have just been informing you.
We are supposed to take good faith assumptions, right?
OTOH, I feel you with what you wrote. In general the things you wrote are unfortunately common.
Your second sentence about never looking at usernames and so on.
People have befriended either for networking purposes or otherwise, others on HN. It doesn’t have to be a cold straight forward only place
Possibly, and they are free to tell me that; I did ask them what they meant, after all.