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Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by ubermonkey on Thursday February 03, 2022 @09:36AM (#30192917)
I think there are a lot of people who are in my position, which is "I would absolutely love to ditch FB entirely, but I can't because of ____".

The value of ____ might be "seeing pictures of family", or it might be "coordination of/participation in a group that has settled on Facebook as the easiest path" (<-- this is me), or it might be "professionally necessary to be there" or a number of other things.

But none of these are positive reasons. There is no love of Facebook behind any of them. It's Facebook being tolerated. This is bad for Meta.

This is probably good for society at large, though. Or at least I hope it will be.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by peckrob on Thursday February 03, 2022 @10:31AM (#30193657)
Yup, Facebook has their tentacles in so many places that walking away from it is difficult, especially if you are involved in local community activities.

My neighborhood exclusively uses Facebook for neighborhood communication.

My kid's school PTA exclusively uses Facebook.

Most of the local food trucks only post their schedules on Facebook.

Since the pandemic started I have been taking the opportunity to go through my house and clean out lots of things that have just been hanging around for years. I list everything I sell on Facebook, Craigslist, OfferUp, and Nextdoor. I can’t remember the last time I got a bite from any of the other services that aren't Facebook. It’s been awhile.

It honestly drives me be crazy how this company has wormed their way into being such an essential piece of communication infrastructure for so many people that I can’t quit without sacrificing my ability to participate in some of the things I really enjoy.

So I begrudgingly tolerate Facebook.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by ubermonkey on Thursday February 03, 2022 @10:53AM (#30193968)
For me, it's the local cycling community. Rides and ride groups all use it as their point of coordination.

>Most of the local food trucks only post their schedules on Facebook.

Oh, god, that's annoying. I've actually seen some businesses forgo a proper web site and instead JUST USE FB, which is crazy annoying.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by AstroJetson on Thursday February 03, 2022 @09:07PM (#30201938)
This!! But its even worse, they don't update their FB page. So I'm forced to use FB to find where they are this week to find their last update was August 2021.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by oezi on Thursday February 03, 2022 @11:58AM (#30194974)
I am from Europe so I may not get it, but what communication does a neighborhood do that is important? Yard sales?

Do people really participate in something like school PTA and eat often at food trucks?

I guess electronic platforms are more fragmented here in Europe. Google Maps owns business hours, various classified sites (such as Ebay's) own selling stuff locally. But everything might be different in each country really.

I think people have become more vary to post personal things online. I know very little parents that would be okay to publish pictures of their kids online (including on Facebook).

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by ubermonkey on Thursday February 03, 2022 @12:44PM (#30195777)
Is it so weird to imagine that having a shared communication space for one's neighborhood is desirable? There's a group for my neighborhood in Houston that's great for referrals (e.g., electricians), or notes about neighborhood businesses, etc. I can't imagine this idea is uniquely American, but maybe it is.

Yes, parents often participate in PTAs. Parent engagement is a big deal in education.

Yes, in many places in the US there are food trucks. People often enjoy them. Finding out where a given truck will be on Tuesday is useful!

Businesses generally keep Facebook pages in the US, usually as a supplement to a real web site, but also because Facebook has traditionally been where everyone is already.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by Charlie_26 on Saturday February 05, 2022 @01:14AM (#30218277)
What is a food truck? Can it dump the food in my mouth?
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by sseagull on Thursday February 03, 2022 @12:41PM (#30195712)
Our neighborhood uses an FB group. There are typically 2-3 posts a week.

* lost and found (including pets)

* HOA announcements

* changes to the trash pickup schedule, special trash collections, etc

* other events (Santa parade)

* new neighbor introductions

* recommendations (repairs, babysitting, dog sitting)

* free stuff or stuff for sale

* general advice on house construction (many houses are similar)

It’s not important per se, and not everyone is in the group. But it does come in handy.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by CaCtUs2003 on Thursday February 03, 2022 @12:48PM (#30195840)
>I think people have become more vary to post personal things online. I know very little parents that would be okay to publish pictures of their kids online (including on Facebook).

I have a few Facebook friends that refuse to post pictures of their kids on Facebook. I also have a LOT of friends that post nothing but.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by swader999 on Friday February 04, 2022 @02:49AM (#30203980)
I quit Facebook three years ago. Deleted all my posts and just left one of my cat. The internet was originally made to share pictures of your cat.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by mongol on Thursday February 03, 2022 @12:45PM (#30195792)
Super-local news and gossip may be very relevant. I am not on Facebook, but I think I am missing out on it. For example, why was there a police car parked two blocks away last Thursday? Someone might have posted about it.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by tekknik on Friday February 04, 2022 @07:17AM (#30205832)
Citizen answers this question better than Facebook
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by monkeyjoe on Saturday February 05, 2022 @10:33AM (#30222043)
Nextdoor also used to do it well, but it has become like Facebook with flame wars and political craziness.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by clbrook on Thursday February 03, 2022 @01:37PM (#30196618)
I'm working on another option for some of these things on my platform, Tosslet: https://tosslet.com

Would love some feedback on if you think it would help solve communications from: 1) PTA -> resident 2) Food Trucks -> nearby people

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by easrng on Thursday February 03, 2022 @11:43PM (#30202957)
Your main non-social-media competitor here is probably going to be https://www.remind.com/, and I really can't see you winning, especially when you charge as much as you do. (I initially misread your pricing, but $0.60 is still kind of a lot.)
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by prostoalex on Thursday February 03, 2022 @11:23AM (#30194400)
Cal Newport's "Digital Minimalism" addresses this common use-case scenario.

1) Remove the apps from your phone and log out on mobile browser, making each future login a concentrated intentional effort. (You can leave Messenger if that might be used for emergency contacts).

2) Use www version only.

3) Choose a time when you're going to sit by your home computer, and use social media for some pre-determined time slot, let's say 30 minutes.

The social networks are very good at serving this use case - showing most important content first, and relegating the junky stuff further down the feed. This way you won't miss any baby photos or wedding announcements, but will be spared from your uncle getting into a heated political discussion.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by quanticle on Friday February 04, 2022 @01:08PM (#30210368)
The social networks are very good at serving this use case - showing most important content first, and relegating the junky stuff further down the feed.

Only up to a point. I have actually missed wedding announcements because the announcement was pushed far down by more recent but less relevant news. Yes, if you use Facebook for 30 minutes a day, you probably won't miss anything. But if you use Facebook less often than that (like an hour a week, or once a month), you will absolutely miss relevant news because it'll be pushed down by whatever political shoutfest is currently drawing comments and reactions.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by annadane on Friday February 04, 2022 @07:50PM (#30215780)
> Yes, if you use Facebook for 30 minutes a day, you probably won't miss anything. But if you use Facebook less often than that (like an hour a week, or once a month)

Which I'm sure is complete coincidence and not at all intended to draw you into using Facebook every second of every hour of every day

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by markwkw on Thursday February 03, 2022 @10:40AM (#30193802)
It's like that with me and having a phone number. Day to day I hate it. 95% of time I get scam calls from the "IRS" - actively harmful. Another 4% is marketing - unwanted, wasteful. Only the last 1% is potentially useful.

Is facebook trending in that direction? Seems like it.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by hkt on Friday February 04, 2022 @05:00AM (#30204840)
I wonder if there's a generalisable statement in there - say, that all communication media will eventually become so swamped in noise that the signal is lost almost entirely?

Maybe too pessimistic.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by tekknik on Friday February 04, 2022 @07:20AM (#30205849)
It seems spot on to me. The fix is rather simple though, allow consumers to set some price that must be paid prior to sending the communication attempt. Want to call or email me and aren’t on my accepted list? $5 please.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by herbst on Saturday February 05, 2022 @04:57AM (#30219612)
I quit having a phone number and just rent virtual ones for shitty webservices that force me to have a number. Zero regrets.

I quit Facebook years ago and do not miss anything either, so maybe it's just me.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by bko on Thursday February 03, 2022 @12:17PM (#30195286)
Seeing pictures of family and participating in group events are all positive in my opinion.

My son's daycare has a facebook page. It's very convenient to stay up to date on my own schedule without having to deal with emails. My pizzeria also has a facebook page. It's an easy way to look up hours or any updates. My gym has an instagram page to post their workouts and schedule. It's very convenient. The owners aren't very tech savvy so its easy for them. And its easy for me because the website isn't broken, gives me everything I need, lets me comment or reach out to the owners and is well indexed

It's like saying "I wouldn't use product if not for the value I get from the product".

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by tekknik on Friday February 04, 2022 @07:23AM (#30205872)
Two of your examples can be done using a shared calendar, which is more fitting in these cases than facebook, and integrates more deeply into devices, and the third about looking up hours can be done using the maps app.

They try to make you think they invented the wheel but really they’re just offering the same services as elsewhere under their umbrella.

Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by ubermonkey on Thursday February 03, 2022 @03:55PM (#30198685)
The information you get from businesses USED to be available on their own sites, without requiring you to submit to Facebook's invasive tracking.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by nradov on Thursday February 03, 2022 @11:24AM (#30194408)
I don't have any particular love for Facebook, but it remains the best way to share my underwater photography with friends. That's a positive reason. I appreciate how they give me a convenient distribution platform and it's all free.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by tekknik on Friday February 04, 2022 @07:26AM (#30205904)
Why could you not post all of your pics to a shared photo album that’s shared with your friends? It’d even remove the step of posting it only because as soon as it’s on your machine it’s uploaded to your cloud photo album. And it’s still free. Further what if you want to share this with those that aren’t your friends? You’ve required facebook usage with no real gain.
Re:Facebook loses users for the first time by patchorang on Thursday February 03, 2022 @02:10PM (#30197176)
(this was years ago but) I thought this too. I was relatively new to a new city and still building my friend group. I was worried that if I deleted facebook I wouldn't get invited to events, keep in touch with new people I met.

I deleted it anyway. Deleting facebook didn't change my real world in anyway.