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Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by leejoramo on Tuesday December 28, 2021 @04:26PM (#29718422)
Issendai’s writing about how to get out of “sick systems” profoundly changed my life. If you are trapped in a job or relationship and feel too overwhelmed to get out read these:

http://www.issendai.com/psychology/sick-systems.html

http://www.issendai.com/psychology/sick-systems-whittling-yo...

http://www.issendai.com/psychology/sick-systems-qualities-th...

Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by microjim on Tuesday December 28, 2021 @08:49PM (#29720780)
That first article references an essay called ‘Not all vampires suck blood.’ The link is dead, so I found a backup at https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20610102
Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by mattgreenrocks on Tuesday December 28, 2021 @11:03PM (#29721704)
Oh my goodness, this feels extremely familiar. I have some reading and work to do. Thank you for linking this.
Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by big-smitty on Wednesday December 29, 2021 @12:14PM (#29726917)
This is incredible work. I recently attended Westpoint and got out for reasons beyond my control, this is basically a recipe for that whole system. Every. Single. Point. Describes what I went through to a T. Seeing this laundry list for the abuse I went through is chilling, but it's nice to be gone. Hopefully people read this and avoid those situations, it's a pretty horrible thing to get involved with.
Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by zuj on Tuesday December 28, 2021 @08:54PM (#29720817)
I remember coming across the first sick systems article you mentioned almost 5 years back when I was with a company which the symptoms of a sick system and this article helped immensely. While I could know that the place is bad and not suitable for me I couldn't really pinpoint why it is bad and how I can get out of it. This article gave me a great perspective and actually propelled my career.
Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by lenocinor on Thursday December 30, 2021 @04:12PM (#29741488)
I just wanted to say that I found these links profoundly insightful today. I’m going to start handing them out a lot in the future. Thank you!
Re:Down the Rabbit Hole: The world of estranged parents' for... by agumonkey on Wednesday December 29, 2021 @07:57AM (#29724390)
Couldn't be more timely