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Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by polote on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @09:33AM (#29649827)
> rule #1 on tinder is “be physically attractive”

For guys it used to be right, now rule #1 is more "be super attractive" or "be attractive and don't have standard"

For girls rule #1 is "be a girl"

Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by cultofmetatron on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @12:12PM (#29652147)
too true, I once had a conversation with a friend of mine. She was saying to just use tinder. As we were about to get in the car, I told her: I'll do nothing but swipe till we get there. if I get a match, I'll pay for lunch when we arrive, otherwise you pay.

She said yes.

easiest free meal I ever got

Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by jonnybgood on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @09:49AM (#29650033)
What does "super attractive" look like?

> For girls rule #1 is "be a girl"

Not at all. Women can have just as much of a hard time as men, especially for certain ethnicities.

Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by polote on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @10:04AM (#29650228)
> What does "super attractive" look like?

Basically be a model

> Women can have just as much of a hard time as men, especially for certain ethnicities.

Can't find the study, but black women are actually having a tougher time than all others women to get matches on dating apps. But this is still nothing compared to the attention guys get

Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by vhanda on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @02:30PM (#29653907)
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by whitepaint on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @02:18PM (#29653771)
Sorry, but you really gotta lose this attitude man.
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by sebastianconcpt on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @10:01AM (#29650196)
Also below 15% body fat and quite high income will help. Women expectations are completely unrealistic these days. Their desire went to the global sexual market. Their hypergamy and narcissism is stimulated to no end.
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by sebastianconcpt on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @10:28AM (#29650547)
It's funny how raw red pill truths get downvoted here. Some seem to prefer to send technical brutal honesty about the current state of sexual market under the rug.
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by ProjectArcturis on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @11:00AM (#29651022)
It could be the app, or it could be that women can easily smell the scent of desperation, entitlement, and resentment wafting off of you.
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by sebastianconcpt on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @11:31AM (#29651494)
I don't know where did you take that from but Tinder's data show is actually women.
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by filmgirlcw on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @01:21PM (#29653093)
Or maybe people just don’t want to fuck you. And maybe you aren’t entitled to anyone fucking you.
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by sebastianconcpt on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @03:56PM (#29655063)
I find your interest in my sexual life as inappropriate as distracting while I'm learning this new shibari binding as my main sub girl is asking me to use it on her this weekend. Oh god, how she loves when I use rope on her. What were you saying?
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by wayoutthere on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @12:12PM (#29652149)
Maybe thinking about sexuality as a market is your first problem. If you’re not physically attractive, just don’t use Tinder; it’s not the only way to find someone to date.

Shouldn’t be a surprise that someone who blames “women” as a whole for his problems would have a hard time meeting women.

And as a corollary, I’ve dated super hot guys before and frankly a lot of them have a hard time with relationships because it was so easy for them to hook up when they were younger they don’t know how to put the effort in to make someone feel desired.

Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by sebastianconcpt on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @12:23PM (#29652305)
I'm not asking anyone about my case not seeking advice as I do great already in both online and offline. You seem in a hurry to assume other people's position and problems and providing unrequested advice that only validate your assumptions. Have you ever observed that in yourself?

Regarding to that corollary, you're assuming top guys even want to invest in relationships in the first place. Not the case of many I know. The strategy is more like: enjoy the party until one of the girls is so mindblowing feminine and submissive and good person that is worth giving a chance to some investing.

Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by cultofmetatron on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @12:13PM (#29652168)
This is only really true in north america (especially if you're of Indian descent). Women have much more realistic expectations once you get out of that cesspit
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by sebastianconcpt on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @03:47PM (#29654947)
Enjoy while it lasts because social media will spread their ambitions. In any case, woman desire for fit men is culturally universal so all should hit the gym and diet for its own good. Hard. Good luck making your game to the next level!
Re:Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech by cultofmetatron on Wednesday December 22, 2021 @09:25PM (#29657953)
I'm currently in a relationship so It doesn't affect me anynore. as far as hitting the gym, I agree. its one of our favorite activities together.